Before a person joins a church they agree to the constitution and statement of faith. Most, of course, will always agree to the statement of faith. But if you don't want to agree to the constitution, where these things have been agreed upon by the pastor and the church, then go and find a church where you will be comfortable. It is as easy as that. A previous church that I was at had dress length written right into the constitution. You can't argue with it. One must agree to the constitution before becoming a member. There is no appeal. The choice is yours before you become a member!
A person, for example, in direct disobedience to the Word of God, (according to the constitution which the agreed to; according to the definition of modesty which they agreed to) is in rebellion. Their heart attitude is one of rebellion. When one continues to live in rebellion what conclusion would you draw no matter what "rules" are being flaunted? As a parent if you set standards for your child. If your child continues to disobey you day after day, is that child right with God or not? It doesn't matter what the standard is. It matters what the heart attitude is to what the person agreed to in the first place.
The thing is, that constitution cannot define the Word of God. They cannot determine what is rebellion towards God; only God can. If they can determine those things, then all the "rebels" have every reason to trash it as manmade nonsense, for if some human church consititution from the last hundred or so years determines what God's Word says, then it is shown to be manmade. If it's not manmade, then we have to confess that God has not inspired organized religion constitutions. (Beyond the ancient nation of Israel, and that is over and done with anyway).
As for them agreeing to the constitution, then we would of course ask why they agreed to it. In many cases, they did
not agree to it, but were born into it or led into it by parents, or perhaps in some cases, new leadership decided to become more strict. Or perhaps, the "rebels" originally agreed to it, but then came to see that it was wrong. Like if someone joined an actual "cult", but then came to the truth. They originally agreed to the "constitution".
And to get back to another part of the point (which you have totally ignored), it extends way beyond accepting their consititution. One can accept the constitution of the contemporary church
next door, and then still have to be accused of "disobedience" as if they were under the first church, insisting it's constitution is the Biblical one.
A ridiculous statement to make. Of course they don't, and never have.
Then it's not a ridiculous statement; it was an
acknowledgment of something true made
in passing (to show, among other things, how they use it as a technicality that allows them to practically violate the principle we all claim to uphold).
You seem to know nothing of living a holy life and everything about enjoying a worldly life which the Bible condemns.
People can say far less than this to you, and you would accuse them of slander!
Where did I even say anything about "worldly living" vs "godly living"? We're discussing Churches'
interpretations of what godly living is, in the first place; and you seem to be saying that whatever their consititution decides is OK; just as long as it is conservative enough on one hand, but is not works-salvation on the other. Nowhere did I say that worldly living is OK.
James 4:4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.
--That "line" that you are talking about? It is what the Bible defines as the world, isn't it?
"The line" in the immediate context was works-salvation. Then, I made reference to a common criticism they make of contemporary Christians as to "trying to come as close to the line and get away with as much as possible instead of focusing on pleasing God". And some are definitely like that, and the judgment would then be right. However, the issue here is one of
liberty, and those same IFB types will throw that charge at modern Christians and deny liberty over music and Bible translations, yet when some of
their rules are under fire; they then appeal to "liberty", and try to get as close to the opposite "line" of legalism as
they can, rather than asking if it pleases God.
I still do not agree with inter-racial dating to this day. But it is not on Biblical grounds. It is for social reason; cultural reasons.
1 Corinthians 6:12 All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any.
Great! I have always had the same leaning (but if it had happened; then the only
Biblical limitation would have been that it would have been a believer).
However, the school claimed it was a
Biblical rule (using the same scripture). In the past, they said whoever opposed it, oposed God; not that it was simply "not expedient".
Is it cult-like to live a holy life?
Is it cult-like to live separate from the world?
Is it prideful or self-aggrandizing to live humbly before the Lord thy God and walk as close to him as possible in as holy a manner as possible, being as separate from the world as possible.
I think you better take a better look at the issues before judging others.
It
is cultlike when
the group by fiat
decides what holiness, separation, humility before God, walking with God, etc. is.
For again; only God can decide those things. Any man tries to, they are by definition
playing God, and this is one of the prime definitions of a cult. (And it is
definitely prideful and self-aggrandizing).
We still have the ongoing debates here over the sabbath. Some say that that is required to live a holy life and walk before God. Anyone who doesn't is living in rebellion (regardless of whether they agreed to the constitution of a Church that believes that). Do you agree with that?
Other groups add all sorts of rules, and I did include the
translation issue, which I have seen you argue against. The KJV advocates say you are rebelling against God's Word. Is that true just because they say so?
So again, you are relativizing by saying that they are justified simply because
they claim their rules are maintaining holiness. Their rules are either
wrong or
right. No 'right in their own church, but wrong to me'.
Also, regarding the issue of IFB vs Pentecostal; it has long been known that there are Pentecostal Baptist churches. In the US inner city community, especially among older people, they are assumed to be synonymous, and many remember growing up in these "Baptist" churches that "had the Holy Ghost" as they called it, or were "holy rollers". And the large majority of these churches were independent. So it is possible that the OP had an experience with a church like this.