The Word of God is laughable?
You will find no other verse in scripture that is as specific and concise on the order of events in salvation as Ephesians 1:13.
That is nothing but your opinion. Others, who believe as you do, believe that other verses are more specific, and they quote them as their pet verses.
Since the verse I quoted specifically shows the opening of the eyes, and freeing from Satan preceding faith and forgiveness, I do not know how you can argue with it. Are you just denying this verse altogether?
You simply don't like it because it proves the doctrine of Calvinism error.
What on EARTH could possibly be my motivation for "wanting" to hold on to what you call Calvinism (for some unknown reason: Calvin did not originate it)?
When I found out about reformed Soteriology, I hated it. So why would I choose, AGAINST something that I liked, if I believed the scriptures didn't teach it? That is insane.
I could show you half a dozen examples of people who first heard the preaching (with no mention of regeneration), then believed (with no mention of regeneration), and then afterward received the Holy Spirit.
All it takes is one verse, that DOES show it: then it must be included in every verse, unless specifically excluded. But there are MULTIPLE verses which show God opening someones eyes, before they believed.
The conversion of Paul is a perfect example. The Lord appeared to him on the road to Damascus and spoke to him. He believed, but did not receive the Holy Spirit until three days later.
The Lord chose Paul, then appeared to Him. By Paul's own Words, in his testimony, He states that God came to open peoples eyes, and turn them from darkness to light that they may believe and be forgiven.
Cornelius heard the preaching of Peter. He believed and then the Holy Spirit fell on him.
Not talking about empowering by the Holy Spirit. We are talking about someone being enabled to respond to Spiritual Stimuli, which according to Paul, precedes faith and forgiveness. Nothing in that verse says that God DIDN'T open their eyes and turn them, so that they might believe: in fact, since Christ says this is what He does, we can conclude it DID happen: Christ does not lie.
Peter and the apostles believed on Jesus, but did not receive the Holy Spirit until Pentacost, many days later.
Ahhh, but they were ALREADY "clean". (John 13:10).
Acts 2:37 Now when they heard this, they were pricked in their heart, and said unto Peter and to the rest of the apostles, Men and brethren, what shall we do?
38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
What happened first? They heard the word of God from Peter and were convicted. No mention of regeneration whatsoever. Then Peter tells them to repent or turn from unbelief and trust in Christ. After they believe they will receive the Spirit.
How many times must I restate this? I am not talking about receiving the Holy Spirit. Being Cleansed is separate from being filled with the Holy Spirit (as shown above). One must be born again, in order to believe, and be justified, so that they can receive the Holy Spirit.
Acts 5:32 And we are his witnesses of these things; and so is also the Holy Ghost, whom God hath given to them that obey him.
Acts 15:7 And when there had been much disputing, Peter rose up, and said unto them, Men and brethren, ye know how that a good while ago God made choice among us, that the Gentiles by my mouth should hear the word of the gospel, and believe.
8 And God, which knoweth the hearts, bare them witness, giving them the Holy Ghost, even as he did unto us;
What did Peter say about the Gentiles here? He said they #1 heard the gospel, #2 believed, #3 God bare witness by giving them the Holy Ghost.
You will never find a different order shown in scriptures.
Except the one that I have shown, with Jesus speaking from the Eternal perspective, stating that people are turned SO THAT they might believe and receive forgiveness.