olegig said:
Please understand I am speaking in general terms, not pointing to any individuals. We all can be guilty of this.
Anyone of any bent can feel they must be saved for various reasons like:
--I am in the church every time the doors are open...
--I give far more than what I am instructed to give....
--I study more and know more scriptures than others do...
--I know everything there is to know about dispensationalism.....
etc, etc....
Again, I don't mean to be picking on individual Calvinist, but I feel the basics of Calvinism give closer ground to this attitude.
I do not believe any Calvinist here or any adherent to the Doctrine of Grace on this board and in any forum of this board feel they are better than anyone else because they do any of the above.
On the other hand, when I was in the "other side of the fence", so to speak, I do tend to (1) make sure I was in church come rain or shine, (2) I give more than the ten percent so often apoplexically preached by many preachers, especially those in the mountain villages who need their members' support to get by considering they're on "full time" ministry, (3) studied more because I felt it to be a duty rather than a pleasure (4) dispensationalism I didn't care much about, though the baptist fellowship my old church belonged to was a strict one on that and tended to exclude anyone who didn't adhere to dispensationalism.
Why did I do all those ?
Because I felt if I didn't,
maybe I wasn't a Christian after all considering how I've been ostracized many a time for failing to quit tobacco, failing to quit occassional alcohol, failing to quit going to the movies, occassionally spouting invectives whenever I am really "kicking it" with anger, failing to put my fists under control, failing to keep my Castillian temper under control, and so on.
I hadda do something, and prove I am different from what I was to meet the "if anyone's in Christ he is a new creature" jazz, right ?
olegig said:
When a theology teaches that one is somewhat different because one is "chosen" then it is easy for one to come to feel they are "special".
And I must say, I resent that.
I know you meant no malice, but still I can't help it.
I resent that.
Because the theology under discussion does not teach, nor make any of its adherents, feel they are under any circumstance special from anyone else.
We are
all of us sinners who deserve nothing better than the wrath of God in its fullness and totality.
But I can understand where you're coming from.
That statement reminds me of my Pentecostal Full Gospel sister who thinks Baptists are heretics because many believe in the eternal security of the believer.
She didn't even want me inside her house because I was Baptist, wouldn't shake my hand or give me a hug, because I was Baptist and one who believed in the eternal security of the believer.
Until she understood what eternal security really taught.
Because she failed to show up for Bible study two weeks in a row, since her husband was home from Saudi, and I told her she needs to get saved again, or leave her husband.
Then she understood she really didn't have to do either one.
olegig said:
From there it is easy to feel that since one does accept the theology, then one must be one of the chosen.
Again, friend, you might as well say that since I accept the way of the Ninja, then I must be a Ninja.
olegig said:
So therefore I must be one of the chosen because I have learned and know all the things of the theology.
see above.
olegig said:
There seems to be many who know all the terms, proof texts, and flow of Calvinism.
Nothing unusual. There are many who know the terms, proof texts, and flow of Arminianism, semi-Pelagianism, Pelagianism, dispensationalism, seventh-day adventism, missionism, neo-Arminianism, and a host of other isms.
olegig said:
Did they learn these by just reading the Bible, or did they learn all these by studying the writings of other men? I have read the Bible quiet a bit and never came to the same conclusions.
By both, I suppose.
I read the Bible a lot before I started using references.
Strong's, Bible dictionaries, Bible customs, then I read dispensationalists, arminians.
I went to an Arminian Bible college, started an Arminian mission which became a church.
Then I read more Bible, read it through twice a year.
Read it along with ole Mr Mc'Gee, Charles Stanley, bought tons of books written by a lot of authors.
Started making notes.
Words like elect, what does that mean ?
book of Life, what in tarnation is that ?
whosoever. did that really mean just about anyone ?
You see, I don't buy it when somebody says "I read the Bible and didn't come to the same conclusion".
Romans 8:29-30 should leap out at you.
Terms like "who shall lay anything to the charge of God's elect", or "for the sake of the elect" should stand out and pique one's curiosity.
The fact is that these do, but because one's church teaches anti-Calvinism or anti-Doctrine of Grace theology, whether by design or unknowingly, one shoves it away because that's what the pastor said.
The only difference I have, I should think, from my classmates at Bible college is that they say "Amen" to everything the prof says, I don't. He spouted such hateful remarks against John McArthur, he actually drove me to listen to the guy, and he spouted such hateful remarks against the doctrine of election, he actually drove me to look for and buy books written by known electionists like James Montgomery Boice and RC Sproul.
But still, I wouldn't let go of what the pastor teaches, because after all, he is a pastor, isn't he ?
So I ended up with a mix bag of election, whosoever, and whatever.
It was here in the States where I learned more about the Doctrine of Grace, from, may I say it again, countryboy preachers, some of whom admit they never got past the elementary grades, some preaching in that hillbilly singsong kind of preaching.
Won't ever go back to listenin' and taking seriously them high-rollin', high-edjikayshun, fulla big high fallutin' words, Dr this or Dr that preacher.