Brother DHK, The more I interact with you, the more I like you. You are very sincere about your convictions, and this is to be admired.
You are making the common mistake of thinking anything we do is a meritorious work, but this is not so. It all depends upon WHY we do it. No matter why we do a thing, we cannot merit God's favor or acceptance thereby. We can only mistakenly imagine that we can merit God's favor or acceptance.
When I tell you that baptism is part of initial conversion to Christ, I am not commenting upon your conversion. That is between God and you. I am only commenting upon what I believe the New Testament teaches. As far as I know, you are a repentant, believing, baptized disciple of Christ, so I count you as a Christian brother.