A couple of observations concerning Baptist pastors and churches...
1) Many are sick places. That is obvious. Being SBC doesn't make a church more or less sick. I've not noticed that the SBC per se is the primary cause of a sick church.
2) Many Baptist churches have wrong theology. This too is obvious. Just reading the various theological directions from the many posters on this board ought to make this point patently evident (And no, I'm not setting myself up as the single "right" person. We all have blind spots and make theological judgments that may not match up to Scripture.). Wrong theology drives wrong doctrine and practice.
3) Many Baptist churches have called men to lead them that they either: A) do not allow to actually lead, or B) allow lead by a heavy hand as if that pastor is the last word on everything. Both cases are wrong, scripturally. The true leader of any Baptist church is Jesus Christ, who redeems people, who are then led by the Holy Spirit to do God's work together, including calling a man who has the gifting of God required to hold the office of pastor, elder, and/or deacon. Those are the biblical offices, and the Bible has much to say about the men who hold those offices.
4) Tradition is rampant in Baptist churches (of all types) and indeed may drive more of the actions of any given church than does Scripture. In many a case, Scripture is pasted onto tradition in the sense that the pastor or church "speaks" then says, "See, the Bible agrees with me/us..." This is a most blatant sin against God. I see this same issue carried out in post after post here on this board, and I presuppose that most board members here are part of a Baptist or baptistic church. What we see here is likely carried out even more so in the home churches, in which case, I truly feel sorry for many people who are being led by some of the people who are that far off the scriptural mark.
5) There is a "culture of death" that is preached and taught in many Baptist churches. By that, I mean that death is preached rather than life. This is best exemplified by the utter lack of humility and acknowledgment of God's grace in the leaders and members of any given church. They are at war with each other, with other churches, and with the world around them in such a way that the name of God is blasphemed every time they open their mouth. While purporting to stand for God, these churches and leaders actually stand for the enemy of God, also called the "accuser of the brethren."
As a side note to this point, God is all about "re" words. Redemption, repentance, restoration, re-creation, reborn, reformation, realignment, realization, release, realistic, reallocation, reassembling, revelation, refuting, regarding, reawakening, receiving, recharging, repositioning, reclaiming, reorganizing, recommissioning, reconciliation, reconnecting, refreshing, reconstituting, re-dedication, redirecting, redeployment, redressing, refueling, reinforcing, re-energizing, reestablishing, refashioning, refining, refocusing, refurbishing, regathering, and a host of other things.
The words above spell "LIFE". Preaching against things spells death. God is the bringer of life. When we war against our brothers and sisters, we are not doing the work of God, even if they are wrong. We are doing the work of the enemy. Our task should be to lift up the wrong ones in prayer, that almighty God might convict and convince. We can speak out, but not in a way that brings death. We speak out for life.