And what does that mean?  It means GOD controls your choices.
This is a hard pill for some to swallow.
Havensdad, I would really appreciate it if you can find time to give me your thoughts on the OP in this thread.
		
		
	 
I don't think I need to. I am pretty sure everyone knows my feelings on it. Men choose certain things because of what their heart desires, and that desire is either determined by the sin nature, and Satan, or by God. 
Some men choose death, because God has chosen to allow them to be led away by their own lusts; He has withheld His hand from them, and in some cases directly hardened them, so that their desire will still be towards sin. Because their desire is turned away from God, their choices, while made completely willingly, will be to their own selfish desires. They are unwilling, and therefore morally incapable, of doing anything other than rebelling against their creator.
Likewise, when God breaks the heart through His Word, implants the "heart of flesh" within his elect, through the preaching of His word, that person is given new desires; to repent, and have faith in Christ. Then, because of these new desires, they choose to repent and follow Christ. This is completely willing, but yet they would never think of doing anything else.
 It is like a blind man behind the wheel of a car, who is racing towards a cliff. When he is given "eyes to see", he slams on the brakes! Not because he is forced, but simply because he is released from the bondage of his lack of sight.