First, I want to say I appreciate your exchanges on here the past couple weeks.
Great. I hope that you and I can put the past behind us and be respectful to one another starting this new year.
I get riled easily and you tend to rile. Maybe we can get to where we actually debate the subject rather than each other.
I'll try to do my part.
Agreed...it means He is in control of everything which is not contrary to free will.
Agreed if "free will" is defined as the ability to do what you want to do.
That is a false dichotomy. By God granting man a choice to receive what He has decreed, man is not in charge of his destiny, God is.
That only works if God has no preference one way or the other.
If God wants something to happen and it does not then he did not get his way.
Whoever got their way ON THAT PARTICULAR THING is the one who was in control of of that particular thing.
That does not mean that God was not Sovereign over the universe- but what it means is that God was not sovereign over that particular thing.
God has thus forfeited his Sovereignty over that decision to the one who makes the decision.
Whoever is in control of something is Sovereign over it.
If you are in control of whether or not you will repent and be saved then you are sovereign over that decision. That does not mean that God has stopped ruling the cosmos- but it means that he does not rule your decision.
If he does not rule EVERYTHING big and small then God is NOT exhaustively sovereign. He is sovereign above all but not IN all.
I believe the Bible teaches that God is exhaustively sovereign- not just in an overarching manner in which he will ultimately cause all things to come to the conclusion he desires- but that God is Sovereign IN all and as such controls the choices of man- not just that he HAS a choice but WHAT that choice will be.
The way I see your view of Sovereignty is this: you believe God gave man a choice and that since God was the one who gave it then God is sovereign over it.
But what that means, to me, is that God has forfeited his sovereignty on that tiny matter to the one to whom he has given the control of it.
Control and sovereignty are the same thing in my book.
If God does not control WHICH choice you make then he is not sovereign over WHICH choice you make. If YOU control WHICH choice you will make then YOU are sovereign over that choice.
That's an incorrect view of sovereignty. My children do things all of the time contrary to what I want them to do and I'm still sovereign over them in our relationship.
Yes, you are sovereign over your relationship but NOT over those things that you wish they would not have done. You may over see those things. You may have granted them the freedom to choose one way or the other. But when they do what you don't want then they are in charge of those things- granted you ALLOWED them to be in charge and that maintains your position as sovereign ABOVE them but you forfeit sovereignty in those small matters to them.
As a non reformed, I can honestly say I have never heard that one. Maybe it's those blasted arminians :laugh:
When you say to your children, "It is up to you whether you want to clean the yard or not today, but I want you to," you are forfeiting to them your control over whether or not they clean the yard that day. You could force them to clean the yard. But when you leave it up to them then you give them control over whether or not they will clean the yard today.
Giving them control over that makes them sovereign over that particular event.
What I believe you believe is that God, while maintaining overarching sovereignty above the universe and mankind, forfeits to man some sovereignty- that which has to do with whether or not they will repent, etc...
Man becomes sovereign over whether or not he will go to heaven because whether or not he will go to heaven is really up to him.
Because if it were up to God EVERYBODY would go to heaven.
Since it is not up to God, God has forfeited his sovereignty on that issue to man. Man is in control of who goes and who does not go- not God. God has done all that He can do to save everybody- now MAN controls whether or not he will take advantage of the merits of Calvary. Man controls whether or not he will go to heaven. God no longer controls that. He helps. Man cannot do it without Him. And God made it possible. But ultimately man's eternal destiny is now up to his choice. Man controls man's choice. Man is sovereign over his eternal destiny. God has made it such.
That is not exhaustive sovereignty. I believe God controls man's choices. I believe whether or not man goes to heaven is up to God. Not just that God made it possible but that God decides it.
Thus God is completely sovereign. Men choose what God determines that men choose.
Yes, but you are not sovereign over what time, who is paying and even whether your wife wants to go with you.
But that's not the point. I am sovereign over the small part that I am sovereign over.
Forfeiting a decision IS an act of sovereignty!!
That may be true, but once forfeited you are not sovereign over it. The one to whom you forfeited the decision is sovereign over the decision.