So honestly then, ultimately the elect cannot resist if they eventually are destined to be a believer. From what you have described, resistance is seasonal or temporary, much like the Borg....Resistance is Futile.
Praise God, you have it right. I resisted as long as I could, but the Lord broke down my resistance, othrwise I know I would still be lost. The thing about being lost is that you can't find the way; you need someone to lead you. Yes, eventually I was willing, but it was the Lord that made me willing (Psalm 110:3, KJV).
Oh! the Bitter shame and sorrow,
That a time could ever be
When I let the Saviour's pity
Plead in vain and proudly answered,
'All of self and none of Thee!'
Yet He found me; I beheld Him
Bleeding on th'accursed tree,
Heard Him pray, 'Forgive them, Father!'
And my wistful heart said faintly,
'Some of self and some of Thee.'
Day by day His tender mercy,
Healing, helping, full and free,
Sweet and strong, and ah! So patient,
Brought me lower, while I whispered,
'Less of self and more of Thee!'
Higher than the highest heavens,
Deeper than the deepest sea,
Lord, Thy love at last has conquered;
Grant me now my supplication-
'None of self, and all of Thee!'
Theodore Monod
Steve