And the answer would be that God chose one to be a child of faith, and the other not, long before either could harden himself according to Skandelon's false teachings.Scarlett,
If someone where to ask you, "Did God love Jacob and hate Esau before either were born?" Ask them what Jesus meant when he taught, "If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters--yes, even his own life--he cannot be my disciple." and if that contradicts his command to honor your parents and love others as yourself?
Ask him if God hatred for Esau and love for Jacob might simply reflect God's choice of one for noble purposes (being the head of the nation that brought us Christ), and the other for common use (being the head of Edom)?
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Just nevermind. Skandelon hit the nail on the head when he identified the primary objection to Calvinism, and it isn't one's view of God, it's one's view of man. Boil down all of Skandelon's arguments, and it comes out to this, God saves those on the basis of an inherent quality. One chooses God because he was good enough to choose God, and one doesn't because he wasn't.