And men who don't "jump off" are better men than those who do and get the praise for so being.
When you say "praise" do you mean like when Paul said Abraham believed and it was credited to him as righteousness?
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"Noah was a righteous man, blameless among the people of his time, and he walked with God."
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"In the land of Uz there lived a man whose name was Job. This man was blameless and upright; he feared God and shunned evil."
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"Have you considered my servant Job? There is no one on earth like him; he is blameless and upright, a man who fears God and shuns evil. And he still maintains his integrity, though you incited me against him to ruin him without any reason."
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"Enoch walked with God"
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Heb. 11
All giving praise for the great cloud of witnesses, whether effectually called to be so or not, the authors don't seem to have any issue giving praise or credit to man for their faithfulness to God. Why do you?
And so the Calvinist goes to the Scripture which asks: What shall we say then? Is there unrighteousness with God?.
Skandelon says yes, God is to blame.
Incorrect. Man is to blame, just as I explained. He is only to blame in a system where he is making all the determinations.
The Scripture says God forbid. For he saith to Moses, I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion. So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy. The Calvinist yields to the text of the Scripture, and Skandelon rejects it.
Incorrect again. I've provided a perfectly sound exegesis of this passage which is actually consistent with the entirety of the passage...
Those being hardened are Israel, with the exception of the remnant of Jews reserved to be messengers to the rest of the world. But those hardened might be provoked to envy and saved (Rm 11:14) because the hardening is "in part" or "temporary." The Gentiles on the other hand are being grafted in. It is really very easy to understand if you know the historical context and intent of Paul.