Reply to Tom Butler
Let's see, we are to pray for God to use us to help a lost man change his mind and accept the gospel.
My question is why pray this prayer, if God is helpless to answer it unless a man gives his permission? I may desire earnestly the salvation of a lost loved one. God may desire the same thing. But neither of us can do anything about it. Both God and I are helpless before the human will. I can pray to God from now to kingdom come and God is still unable to answer my prayer.
So what can we pray for? We can pray that the Holy Spirit will open blinded eyes and reveal the truth. We can pray that God will convict of sin. We can pray that God will give a heart of flesh to offset the heart of stone; We can pray that the Holy Spirit will draw the lost man. We may pray that God will grant him repentance (Acts 11:18). We can pray that God will give them saving faith (Phil 1:29)
If my loved one's salvation is dependent on his will, I am ready to pray that God will make him willing. I am ready to pray that God will violate his free will.
I think your view is wrong, Tom. We are to cultivate, to plant and to water. Yes God causes the increase, but He uses believers to spread the gospel with power and conviction.
Lots of us, when making a difficult decision, consider both options. By cultivating, planting and watering, we can help make the grass greener on the side of life eternal rather than on the side of eternal darkness.
I see where you again misrepresented my view, I did not say for God to overrule with Irresistible grace the will of the lost, I prayed for God to use me, whether or not my ministry bears fruit in the manner I desire.
What does it mean for God to "grant repentance." Does it mean compel it through irresistible grace? Of course not. It means salvation is not only for the Jews, Christ has torn down the wall, and now under the New Covenant, God has granted repentance to life for the Gentiles. He paid the ransom for all, and God desires that all come to the Truth.
What does it mean for God to grant not only to believe but to suffer for Christ's sake? (Philippians 1:29) God "granted" Christ and the Good News for whoever to believe in Him and stand firm in the faith even to suffer for His sake. To say this verse says God gave them "saving faith" is to utterly rewrite the verse according to your doctrine.