There you go. All you need to do is throw away your sense of right and wrong, and you can believe in Limited Atonement.
But you need to throw away a bit more, you need to throw away your common sense as well. You have to be able to convince yourself that terms like "all men", "every man", "the whole world" really only mean a few elect.
If you can do this, you will qualify as a full fledged Calvinist. It's not hard, you just have to stop thinking.
All means All and every man includes every man there is! This way of thinking doesn't hold up if you are thinking universally. For instance in the 12th chapter of Romans it says within the 3rd verse
according as God dealt to every man the measure of faith. Well then all men have faith one would conclude. But in the context of the verse it says first
to every man that is among you, If we go back to the beginning of the Letter to see who it was addressed to it was, chapter 1:7
To all that be in Rome, The entire Roman population you conclude......No 1:7
beloved of God, called to be saints: In the 8th verse Paul further tells who they are
First, I thank my God through Jesus Christ for you all All again, who are the all being considered.
that your faith is spoken of throughout the whole world. Well is every single person in the world talking about their faith or those through out the world that be of like faith? These of the faith are the all being considered that Paul has a desire that they may be established. Well now going back to the 12th chapter of Romans looking at 5th verse we can clearly see who the everyman is that was dealt a measure of faith. 12:5
So we, being many, are one body in Christ, So the everyman is limited to those that make up the body that is His bride which is the Church of the living God. Now consider 2 Thessalonians 3:2
And that we may be delivered from unreasonable and wicked men: for all men have not faith. Well which is it then? everyman has faith or all men have not faith. Shall we take all men have not faith to mean all men universally? Well that would be an error as much as saying every man universally has faith.
Some more samples look at Mark 1:5
And there went out unto him all the land of Judea, and they of Jerusalem, and were all baptized of him in the river Jordan, confessing their sins. "All" of those that were with Jesus Christ, not everyone in the land of Judaea.
Matthew 21:22
And all things, Whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive. "All" righteous things. Not evil things.
2 Thessalonians 2:9
Even him, whose coming is after the working of satan with all power and signs and lying wonders. "All" power of Satan is limited as well, for Satan is only the father of lies, satan can't give life, but only death, satan can't resurrect anyone from the dead.
So actually it is not a matter of stop thinking but a study of the scriptures.