part 2-
This description of the unsaved in these verses does not mean this is the only reason they perish as you allude to. Men are perishing as we speak who never heard about Jesus.
Those who hear the truth and do not love it are spoken of here. Of course all truth suppressors perish. All others outisde of Christ perish also.
It is the ultimate factor as attested by the scriptures, though not the only one involved. The better question might be.. how can one be sealed into damnation for rejecting something that has nothing to do with them?
And yes, while multitudes have not heard the gospel itself, all men are revealed some spiritual truth by God Himself to them, through nature and their conscience. Thus we see the very premise of God at work upon all men. We also know that All truth is of and about Christ, and the rejection of even the most basis aspects of these spiritual truths (there is a God, sin righteousness, and the Judgment to come) which all men come to know, according Romans 1 & 2, is a rejection of the Christ the only salvation. If they believe what God has revealed then God brings in greater more full light that they might believe unto salvation. However if there is no salvation in Christ for them, there is no reason to reveal or sealing any man unto damnation for rejection of it or Him as there was nothing to reject on their behalf.
The only "choice is look and live". Failing to make this choice always results in second death.
And here we play tennis again. You said Christ didn't die for them, there is no salvation for them, thus there is not and can not be any offer or choice to "look and live", unless you are now affirming that a way of salvation is indeed open for them because Christ Jesus has, in fact, provided a way for them.
Yes...we do not agree here.I think it is a good verse and I also believe it as truth. They perish....because ...they remain in the realm of death..because.....not welcoming truth ,they were never taken out of that realm..but as i posted from Jonah..instead they observe lying vanities.
Again, what is the truth they are rejecting which is KEEPING THEM in the realm of death. I don't dispute they remain in the realm of death, for to be in Christ (saved) is to have life. But again... what Truth? What truth is there that can save if you believe it and condemn you if you do not?
As I see it, this is the issue you must deal with.. there is NO valid offer if there has been no propitiation for their sins (ie. a way of salvation made for them). You can not offer someone something you do not have nor do you intend to give them. That is unrighteous, deceitful, and IS lying and we know that God does not lie, is the standard of righteousness, and good is all His ways. So there is a biblical disconnect in your view, it seems to me.
Their choice to refuse is tragic and does figure in to their condemnation.
Refuse what? and as such, why does it figure into their condemnation if it is as you say - there is no salvation for the non-elect, Christ did not die for them,... - there is NO good news for them as they have no salvation in which to even potentially "look and believe".
They are sealed in unbelief by this tragic choice ...yes
Again, what choice? According to your view, they have no choice as there is no salvation for them, Christ did not die for them, there is nothing to "look and believe" to. There is NO choice offered to them. The statement "repent and believe" is actually "repent and believe the gospel" or good news.
I stated:
They were not hated and condemned by God who passed over them and as such did not provide a means of salvation for them as some declare.
You stated:
Yes they were absolutely.This passage does not change anything at all as far as God's purpose is concerned.
The very passage IS from God's perspective as it declares what is going on from a Heavenly standpoint, NOT mans assumption. This very passage does great damage to the Reformed position of the "L". It establishes they were not just 'passed over' because it proves they 'could be saved' but rejected the truth. FOR THAT REASON GOD... that they ALL might be damned who did not believe the truth. This is not a passing over in an sense, in fact it establishes they were not just 'passed over', and that a means of salvation was indeed procured, and thus able to be offered to them.
You and some others have found this....others have "found" something else.
And yet if you go according to context, there is no other way to accept the text other than what I have given. I have found no viable expounding of this passage, and yes I am quite open to hearing some. But the problem I have found is that most do as you are doing.. there is no salvation for them .. so they reject the truth and sealed in their damnation. It is a complete contradiction.. if there is no.. then they can not reject something that is not. (yes.. I did an incomplete sentence for emphasis

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it was their choice that determined in the eyes of God their relationship with Him
No....It is always God's covenant that determines a persons relationship or lack of one to God. Their choice had nothing to do with their fallen and alienated condition.This is to put the proverbial cart in front of the horse.
So then a question.. before they were saved.. were they children of God or Children of wrath? What covenant relationship did they have prior to their salvation being children of wrath? God relationship with man is conditional, believe and be saved. That is the condition for the relationship. Belief places on into that Covenant relationship (saved). While the Covenant exists prior to their salvation, and God indeed knows all that are His, they are, by God's own declaration via Paul, prior to salvation children of wrath not children of God.
I'm not saying there is no Covenant relationship, I'm saying that the relationship is upheld by one party (God) but is agreed upon to come into by both parties. It is this agreement that establishes the 'relationship' otherwise, there would be no relationship. Ever seen a one sided marriage?
there is not potential...just actual. To us it seems potential because we do not know. It is actual however.
And yet you state they can reject the truth that saves and be condemned for the rejection of something that has nothing to do with them nor indeed is even offered to them.
Again all I see here is a tennis match against yourself. I'm not trying to be mean here but that is what I see as you jump from one side to the other then back again. In tennis the two sides oppose each other.
Salvation is offered to all who hear of it.It is never offered to all.They will always refuse unless God grants them repentance and faith.
So it appears you are 'now' contending that everyone who hears the gospel (though not all get to hear it as the gospel has not yet reached them) but to those who have, God is offering
them salvation, noting the fact that no salvation can be offered unless Christ has died for them. Also God does 'grant' (which means allow) all men repentance (ie. the opportunity to repent) and have faith/believe. The very reason they hear it or any amount of spiritual truth, even the most basic (sin, righteousness, and the Judgment to come) is that God is granting/allowing them to repent and believe.
The offer is free and stands. I can offer you all my money if you can jump up and orbit saturn.The offer is good.
I agree with the above and yet it stands in opposition to what you propose often and here is why. In order for your offer to be valid (giving me all your money), you have to have already what you state you will give in order for your offer to be true and good, so it stands. Point in fact, God does not offer to us what He does not yet have, much less offer what He does not desire to give.
If you offer me the something that you do not have, nor that you wish to give, or worse what is no in your power to give... you have deceived and thus lied to that person about what you were claiming to offer. An offer is not valid unless you have already what you claim you will give to person to whom you are making the offer.
not a contradiction as has been pointed out earlier in my responses.
You are consistently contradicting yourself brother
What mercy are they forsaking since Christ did not die on their behalf..
They are forsaking the truth of God,and his mercy.
What truth and what mercy.. you are so vague here it is like pea soup.
Mercy is not giving them what they deserve.. how are they forsaking this when NO mercy is offer them?
What truth of God is it that yields forth the Mercy of God?