The actual gifts of the Spirit were manifested in the first century.If the gifts are a move of the HG how can one abuse something that takes a supernatural move of the HG?
The gift of tongues (languages) was being abused by the Corinthian church.
There were some that were faking it, pretending to speak in another language when they weren't.
There were others that had the gift but were speaking out of order--3 or more speaking at a time, and thus chaos in the church.
There were many that had the gift and spoke without an interpreter. Paul said that no one was to exercise this gift without an interpreter.
There were women speaking in tongues. Paul said for the women to keep silence in the church, and it was out of order for them to speak.
These were some of the reasons that Paul gave in 1Cor.14, for the members not to use the gift as they were. They were abusing it. He told them that he would rather speak five words that they could understand then 10,000 words that they could not understand. It was a showy gift (made a person look spiritual), but in the way that they were using it, it didn't edify anyone.