So out of curiosity, I checked the John Calvin commentary for Ephesians 5:11 (available at ccel.org):
Further, Calvin says this about verse 13, which also uses the word "reprove":
It was stated that the underlined words (shame, reprehend severely, punish--all intended to support a philosophy of "demolish") were the best match to the context of the passage.
By his own words, Calvin seems to have believed that definitions 1.b. and 2.a.2. were the best matches for the context of the passage.
And?
If Calvin is right about that, it is still the same thing.
DRAG to the light is not sweet language.
You're wrong, Don, and you are too proud to admit it.
All you are doing at this point, it seems to me, is DESPERATELY trying to keep from everybody seeing you drown in this debate.
There is nothing in the BIBLE more clear than how God expects us to deal with darkness.
You DEMOLISH it.
You REPROVE it.
You WITHSTAND it to the face.
You HATE it.
NO WHERE does the Bible ever say to speak softly and sweetly about evil.
You can gingerly bring a confused brother around, but in doing so you still DEMOLISH his thinking and if he bucks against it, you don't even have to handle him gingerly.
Our first resort is tenderness in handling the one in the dark, but we are plain about the darkness which engulfs him.
You probably ascribe to this bumper sticker theology that says, "Hate the sin, love the sinner."
Well DO IT. HATE the sin. HATE the sin. Hate it. HATE it and don't hide your hatred for it.
HATE darkness and don't pretend to feel otherwise about it or you are a fake.
Love the sinner. And love ON the sinner so long as there is humility. But when there is pride, you still love the sinner, but you stop loving ON him until his arrogance is broken.
Paul did not stroke Peter's brow sweetly and say, "Hey Peter... I understand why you did what you did. And I'm not saying it was terrible. But would you please consider considering that maybe you might ought to have stayed with the Gentiles- I mean, I could be wrong and I'm not judging you, mind you, but I just wanted to run it by you, my dear sweet brother."
No. The text says he got up in Peter's FACE and set him straight.
If you don't want to do that, fine. If you don't want to do what God said you are supposed to do- fine. But for heaven's sake, don't weaken the hands of those that do it.
Read Luther's Bondage of the Will some time. Read how Luther OBLITERATED Erasmus.
And Luther had little societal automatons who love to go with the flow of whatever is popular in religion at the time who would say, "Luther is a BULLY!"
But people like that do not change the world. Luther changed the world.
Have you ever read Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God?
Or better yet, have you ever read Edwards' book The Surprising Work of God wherein Edwards lays out the kind of preaching God blessed in the Great Awakening?
You ought to. It would do you a world of good on your thinking here.
I honestly believe handling darkness sweetly is as bad as the darkness itself.
We could run darkness out of this culture, if Christians were not so brainwashed by this tolerance obsessed society.
I'll just say it- if Christians had a back bone- like that which the Apostles and Prophets and godly kings and Patriarchs had- like that which the heroes of the Christian faith had.
You want me to be like everybody else in this religious culture. People who are like everybody else NEVER do great things.
The EVERYBODY ELSE is USUALLY the problem, not the answer. Doing things DIFFERENTLY from the status quo is what God requires of you, Don.
Because God does not care if people like you. God does not care if people think you are being too hard. Those same stupid automatons often think GOD is too hard. God doesn't care what they think. And God expects you not to care too. He expects you to care about proclaiming his truth the WAY he said to proclaim it.
THAT'S what ought to matter to you.
Not that I am not doing it the AVERAGE way. God HELP us when we let the average way people do things be our guide!!
I am calling on able folks in bb to STOP addressing darkness like the rest of this Christian culture expects you to address it! Who CARES if it is popular to speak softly about darkness???
DEMOLISH it! Or we perish.
Look at Europe. Compromise with darkness led to the APOSTASY of the continent.