1. You don't know me from Adam. How could you possibly know what would run me out of a church?
Hi Dabowhunter,
Well, to be honest, and in answering your question, I'd gather that simply by reading your OP we get a hint at what runs you out of churches as you share your personal convictions.
Here is the OP:
Hi Everybody:wavey:
I am new here but have been Saved by the Grace of the Lord Jesus for many years. Sad to say I have not had a church home for quite a few years. Am now seriously looking for a church to Worship and grow in. Have always been in Baptist churches that taught sound doctrine and preached the Blood of Christ, had altar calls and sang the old standard hymns out of a hymnal.
Now I am finding that the local baptist church sings unfamiliar worship songs off large screens and the sermons are very weak in delivering a salvation message (no altar calls). Head pastor left a few months ago. Seems like the attendance most be down as over half the chairs are empty. Does this sound like a church that has gone purpose driven ?
You say you haven't had a church home for quite a few years, but are you attending at all?
You also state that you always belonged to a church that preached the blood, sang hymns, and taught sound doctrine. Now, going off of what you say here, you are looking for a church that preaches the blood, and that is great. You've mentioned this several times. Allow me to ask, when you go scope out a church, how long do you give that preacher to mention the blood in his message before you stop going, or decide not to go back? Let's ask ourselves what the NT example of church really is, not what we were used to, and if looking at the NT example we find a biblical example that transcends our concept and ideal, then that is a great find, and something to think about, as we would want our church to be what God designed it to be.
You mention unfamiliar worship songs. This is already touchy for so many in churches, but my friend, I'd gather that these are unknown to you for the fact that you haven't been in a home church for years. Also, you mention the songs being on screens. Tell me why that is unacceptable to you. Is it because of a passage of Scripture? Is it because you want it done 'the old fashioned way' and if it isn't, it is wrong? We must always remember worship songs are worship songs, or made to use in worship of God. Now, I've had a few songs I haven't cared for, but those out there singing, well, some of these fellow believers really worship God in them, so it can't always be about us. I think that is a form of giving and submitting to others that we can accept and practice. No harm done there.
Also keep in mind concerning messages, that in the NT church a big thing that needs to be addressed to those believers present is doctrine concerning their walk, keeping in mind that the NT Epistles were for that purpose, and to be shared, preached in churches, and there is not a lot about being saved in these epistles. So, you'll get a lot of these types of messages, which is OK, because they are following the intent of the NT epistles to equip believers, and to edify them (and I mean the biblical definition of edify, not the popular assumption). But I believe we should seek to always tie in the Gospel message to our messages.
I think that too often we expect the pastor to be preaching to the lost every service and it should always and only be evangelistic. I think we would be hard pressed to find examples of actual church gatherings that did this in the NT during a "church service." Remember that those "services" were about prayer, prayer for power, fellowship, continuing in doctrine, breaking of bread.
The saving work happens outside the church, as the church is a gathering of believers, sometimes people get saved in a service, and we all love when this happens, but the biggest mission field is outside those walls, and teaching doctrine to believers within the walls is a huge part and purpose of the church.
So we should be equipping believers for that work outside the walls, and lets be honest, not a lot of people in churches win others, or have much evangelistic zeal for the lost. Part of this huge problem is they are not being equipped in church, and what adds to it is a false belief in what church is all about in the first place.
I can bet that you've noticed a huge drop off in sound doctrine, and in believers having a good grasp of truth? Part ot that problem is that our churches haven't been designed by NT example, and haven't taught and trained the believers truth, doctrine &c.
It seems to me that here in the US and probably elsewhere, we look at church like going to a ball game. We sit back and watch and cheer on the one doing the work like we would at a ball game, we hope for a home run (a soul saved) and like fans of the home team, we go home and whine about our team if we didn't get that run and/or about other issues.
The "fans" have all the answers on what needs to be done, and it's all about what the "home team" needs to do while the fan base does nothing but look at stats, scores, and for reasons "they lost." This predicament has been created by a false belief in what church is all about, having been facilitated by church itself. This is a vicious cycle that desperately needs to change.
I hope you can find a church designed after the NT example that will be a blessing to you, and you to them, while equipping you for doing Gods will in your life.
- Peace