These are ministry gifts! And no, not all are called into the ministry!
No, they are "sign gifts," the sign of an apostle.
They were only used by some in the ministry during the first century when revelation was not complete, when that which is perfect or complete (was not yet come) which is the Word of God, then that which is in part (tongues, prophecy, revelatory knowledge) was done away. It was not needed any longer. By the time the last apostle died (John) at the end of the first century, the canon of Scripture was complete (made perfect), and those revelatory gifts were not needed any more--the ones mentioned in 1Cor.13:8.
They are compared to faith hope and charity at the end of the chapter. But Paul says of these three gifts that charity or love is the greatest. Why? Because faith and hope will also pass away. When? When Jesus comes again. Faith is only in effect for as long as we don't see him. But when Christ comes we no longer need faith for we shall see him as he is. The same is true with hope. He is our hope. We hope for what we see not. But when the blessed hope of our salvation appears our hope will be fulfilled. Thus faith and hope will be nor more needed when Christ appears.
That leaves love. Love is greatest because love is never-ending.
In 1Cor.12:28 the gifts are listed in order, and in order of importance. That is, firstly, secondly, and after that, then, etc. At the very end is the least important of all the gifts--tongues. It wasn't an important gift. The problem with the Corinthians was that instead of seeking a more beneficial gift like teaching, they sought a more "showy" gift, often carnal, but least important.
Paul said he would rather speak 10,000 words with understanding then five words in tongues (without understanding). That was the relevant importance of this particular gift. If my post had only five words in it, it would be more beneficial than a post with 10,000 words in a language no one could understand.
Tongues was a language, an actual language, a foreign language that others in a foreign nation would understand. The proper application of this in today's culture would be that those who would have the gift would not have to study a foreign language in order to be a missionary to a foreign nation. But that doesn't happen. It did happen to Paul--many times.
He said: "I thank God that I speak in tongues more than you all."
1. It was an actual foreign language. "How hear we every man in our own language."
2. It was given as a means of revelation before the NT was complete.
3. It was given as a sign to the apostles that the apostles were genuine messengers of God, and that their message was genuine. (2Cor.12:12; Heb.2:3,4)
4. It was given as a sign to the Jews. (1Cor.12:21,22)
They were temporary and ceased at the end of the first century.
Can you give any evidence that Biblical tongues is being spoken today. Remember it is a gift, a spiritual gift. There would be evidence today if some had this gift today.