from Deitrich Bonhoeffer's little book, LIFE TOGETHER:
“Let him who cannot be alone beware of community...If you refuse to be alone you are rejecting Christ’s call to you, and you can have no part in the community of those who are called...but the reverse is also true: Let him who is not in community beware of being alone. If you scorn the fellowship of the brethren, you reject the call of Jesus Christ, and thus your solitude can only be hurtful to you.”
“Only in fellowship do we learn to be rightly alone, and only in aloneness to we learn to live rightly in fellowship.”
“If we have learned to be silent before the Word, we shall also learn to manage our silence and our speech during the day.”
“Let him who cannot be alone beware of community...If you refuse to be alone you are rejecting Christ’s call to you, and you can have no part in the community of those who are called...but the reverse is also true: Let him who is not in community beware of being alone. If you scorn the fellowship of the brethren, you reject the call of Jesus Christ, and thus your solitude can only be hurtful to you.”
“Only in fellowship do we learn to be rightly alone, and only in aloneness to we learn to live rightly in fellowship.”
“If we have learned to be silent before the Word, we shall also learn to manage our silence and our speech during the day.”