Really? I think that is what He would be surprised to discover.
There is a sense in which God loves everyone in the whole world (see John 3:16; 1 John 2:2; Romans 5:8). This love in not conditional -- it is based only on the fact that God is a God of love.
1 John, NASB
8 The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love ...
16 We have come to know and have believed the love which God has for us. God is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.
God’s love for all of mankind results in the fact that God shows His mercy by not immediately punishing people for their sins (Romans 3:23; 6:23). God’s love for the world is manifested in the fact that He gives people the opportunity to repent.
2 Peter
9 The Lord is not slow about His promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance.
However, God’s love for the world does not mean He will ignore sin. God is also a God of justice/
2 Thessalonians 1
6 For after all it is only just for God to repay with affliction those who afflict you,
Sin cannot go unpunished forever.
Romans 3
25 whom God displayed publicly as a propitiation in His blood through faith. This was to demonstrate His righteousness, because in the forbearance of God He passed over the sins previously committed;
26 for the demonstration, I say, of His righteousness at the present time, so that He would be just and the justifier of the one who has faith in Jesus.
The most loving act of eternity is described by Paul.
Romans 5
8 But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
Anyone who ignores God’s love, who rejects Christ as Savior, who denies the Savior who bought him (2 Peter 2:1) will be subject to God’s wrath for eternity (Romans 1:18), not His love (Romans 6:23). God loves everyone unconditionally in that He shows mercy to everyone by not destroying them immediately because of sin. He also provides everything they need for life and the evidence that He is.
Acts 14
17 and yet He did not leave Himself without witness, in that He did good and gave you rains from heaven and fruitful seasons, satisfying your hearts with food and gladness."
At the same time, God only has “covenant love” for those who place their faith in Jesus Christ for salvation.
John 3
36 "He who believes in the Son has eternal life; but he who does not obey the Son will not see life, but the wrath of God abides on him."
Does God love everyone? Yes. Does God love Christians more than He loves non-Christians? No. Does God love Christians to a different extent than He loves non-Christians? Yes. God loves everyone equally in that He is merciful to all. God only loves Christians in that only Christians have His eternal grace and mercy and the promise of His forever love in heaven. The unconditional love God has for everyone should bring us to faith in Him, receiving in thankfulness the great conditional love He grants all those who receive Jesus Christ as Savior.