Hi Ben, I did not see much in the way of a response, other than to say you disagree with Open Theism. I did not address exhaustive determinism in my post, only prevenient grace.
1) I agreed God acts first and provides the grace of revealing Himself. So to say my position disregards the need for God's action is a mischaracterization.
2) My view is not LFW, but that fallen men have limited spiritual ability which is able to respond, i.e receive, accept and welcome, the milk of the gospel.
3) The point with Romans 10:9 was not that it pointed away from Total Spiritual Inability, the point was it does not support the concept of Prevenient Grace. PG is nowhere to be found in the verse.
4) No I am not saying we respond without the influences of God, including His word, and the examples of believers sharing His ministry. Yes, I am saying Prevenient grace, the supernatural altering of a fallen person to enable them to respond to the gospel, is found nowhere in scripture.
5) I object to Prevenient Grace because I cannot find it in scripture. You cited four verses and in my opinion none mentioned nor suggested Prevenient Grace.
6) All Arminians, those pushing the doctrine of Prevenient Grace, are Open Theists, they say God did not cause us to reject or accept the gospel, He just enable us to respond either way we choose. That is Open Theism, our future is not fixed.
7) I did not suggest we love God before He loves us, I clearly stated the opposite view.
8) I do not object to supernatural enablement because I hold some other doctrine, I object because when I studied the topic, I found no evidence in scripture for the doctrine. It is man-made in my opinion.
9) To restate my view, Revelatory Grace, the milk of the gospel is sufficient when coupled with believers filled with the Spirit as witnesses, those who till the ground, plant the seed, and water, to open the hearts of those who are "of My sheep."