Hebrews 12:5 And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him:
12:6 For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.
12:7 If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?
12:8 But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.
12:9 Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?
12:10 For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness.
12:11 Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.
I can attest to one thing I have taken many trips to the Lords woodshed but speaking of my own father I've gotten away with many things as I was growing up. The Lord knows our frame and when we need correction and how and when to apply the correction when needed... Wait till your father gets home doesn't apply here... You know the rod of correction is coming you just don't know when... The Lord deals with his children as sons and daughters and all his children are partakers and the scriptures further states...
12:6 For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.
12:7 If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?
12:8 But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.
We can lay claim being sons and daughters that we belong to God and the chastening was for our benefit even though grievous at the time drew us closer to our Father because of his Holy Love!... Brother Glen