I will admit that there is a difference and the words cannot be used interchangeably in every instance. My question would then become, do the two ever come together as it relates to a relationship with the Lord?
We ask the question, does not the Lord command men...to believe?
But I think you hit on the focal issue, "the two coming together
as it relates to a relationship with the Lord."
Let me again make sure the key to this is understood: "
...as it relates to a relationship with the Lord."
We cannot overlook or nullify the fact that the natural man cannot receive or understand the spiritual things of God. That is a concrete standard for all men. While it might be thought that this has no relevance to Adam, I would remind all that Adam too was dependent on God revealing His will to Him. How did He do that? Well, we all know. We've all read the Genesis account. Adam was not created knowing those things which God revealed to him. There would have been no sin if God had not told him not to eat of that tree, right (Romans 5:13)?
Now, after the Fall, we still see God revealing His will. Most of us understand revelation has been progressive from the Beginning. The depth of the revelation gradually increases as History progresses. Wee the Gospel first revealed in Genesis 3:15, and as time progresses, that particular revelation becomes more complex, until the time when it is revealed to men to be understood as the Plan of Redemption God has intended from the Beginning.
And I would just throw in, Pastor Bob, I know you know this, these basic details are for the benefit of someone that might not know them.
So here in your first statement in this post...you identify the critical aspect involved in understanding volition and free will, and how they relate to salvation. The simple fact is that until God reveals Himself to men, they have no relationship to the Lord, and that means the obvious volition and free will identified with man has no relationship to...relationship to the Lord.
When we understand that, the petty bickering that has gone on for centuries...disappears.
And it becomes even more relevant when we understand that the Gospel of Jesus Christ was not revealed in past Ages. This lends understanding to the difference of relation to the Lord then, and relationship to the Lord now.
Granted, the will of man is depraved and not bent on fostering a relationship with the Lord;
Bingo.
We cannot negate, nullify, nor redefine clear terms in the Word of God which make it clear there are none that seek the Lord.
but, I believe every man is given an opportunity (II Peter 2:12) to exercise his volition and free will to appropriate the finished work of Christ to his own sinful condition.
And I agree with that 100%.
However, neither volition or free will are relevant to the revelation of God (no matter the Age) until first that revelation is provided to men by God. God always initiates the conditions which arise whereby men have the opportunity to, not exercise free will or volition, but to respond to the revelation provided them. Think about it like this: I come out of a dark alleyway, stick a gun to your head, and tell you to give me your wallet. Did you know I existed until I appeared? You may have had a notion of muggers, but had you been introduced to the reality of me? Secondly, is it your free will that you exercise when you hand your wallet over? You could argue it was, but the truth is you are not exercising the freedom of choice, you are responding to a situation which, while it has options, doesn't leave you as the one deciding what you are going to do.
And that is the precise situation the natural man is in when God reveals Himself to Him. If volition or free will were an option in a relative sense, there would be one more option for man...make no decision without consequence.
I will add to your proof-text above:
2 Peter 2:20-21
King James Version (KJV)
20 For if after they have escaped the pollutions of the world through the knowledge of the Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, they are again entangled therein, and overcome, the latter end is worse with them than the beginning.
21 For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them.
Paul makes the same point in Romans 1-2...that God revealed Himself to men...and they chose after receiving that revelation. Peter distinguishes between the Ages in this Chapter, making distinct the false prophets of the past with the false teachers of this Age. The writer of Hebrews also distinguishes between the Ages when he contrasts the more severe punishment of those who reject Christ, His Sacrifice, and the Ministry of the Holy Ghost (Hebrews 10:28-29), just as Peter does here in this chapter.
The error of the Free Will brethren is that they do not calculate the vital necessity of God's revelation to man, whereby volition and free will become related to relationship with the Lord. Then there is the reverse error of the Calvinist, to teach that men must be regenerate in order to understand the spiritual things of God, thus having the ability to place faith in Christ.
The simple New Testament Bible Basic is that this is the specific Ministry of the Comforter in this Age:
John 16:7-9
King James Version (KJV)
7 Nevertheless I tell you the truth; It is expedient for you that I go away: for if I go not away, the Comforter will not come unto you; but if I depart, I will send him unto you.
8 And when he is come, he will reprove the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment:
9 Of sin, because they believe not on me;
The Promised Spirit would, according to Christ...convict unbelievers specifically concerning relationship with and to God through Jesus Christ. We know He ministers to unbelievers because that is precisely how Christ defines "the world." He will convict the world of righteousness and judgment as well, but I give this portion because the point being made is that unbelievers are in view.
Now, think back to the analogy of the mugger (and for the record, I have never mugged anyone, lol), and contrast that with not only the Ministry of God to the unbeliever in this Age, but to His Ministry in prior Ages. Stephen, prior to being stoned, charged the Jews thus:
Acts 7:51-53
King James Version (KJV)
51 Ye stiffnecked and uncircumcised in heart and ears, ye do always resist the Holy Ghost: as your fathers did, so do ye.
52 Which of the prophets have not your fathers persecuted? and they have slain them which shewed before of the coming of the Just One; of whom ye have been now the betrayers and murderers:
53 Who have received the law by the disposition of angels, and have not kept it.
We see in Hebrews Chapter Three it is the Spirit of God that spake unto the Children of Israel.
The point? This is how God has always revealed Himself to man, and until man has revealed to him the will of God, in his fallen state he cannot be found to be exercising volition or free will
as it relates to relationship with the Lord.
Continued...