It had to do with YOUR post: "God loved Jacob and hated Esau".
Sorry I didn't expect to have to connect the dots for you. Is common sense always the last thing for elect to regenerate?
Luke 14
26“If anyone comes to Me, and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be My disciple.
Let me guess you guys shot dead your father, mother, wife and children?
OR could it mean a figure of speech to prioritize God? as God prioritized on Jacob.
Or maybe it means God doesn't have to teach someone who loves their family anything new the only people who need to be disciples are the idiots who do hate their family and haven't got a clue of God's good character.
Nice little hidden gem right here:
27“Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple.
You don't/can't carry your own cross. The false humility is so exaggerated and extremist in crediting God you made him helpless teacher who can't teach anyone anything. So I guess its true you can't be a student/disciple of Jesus, since he does the only cross carrying around.