I have to say I agree with your post. Its my feeling that if Communion is to have some actual relevance then I feel that bringing it back to the way it is described in Scripture is the way it should be done.
Its been my experience and is my view that sharing a meal with other believers can in some cases have more spiritual signifigance than attending a church service. Sharing meals is done many times over in the New Testament and there are various references to members of the early church doing that. It seems to me interesting to ponder that in our modern churches we have a church service based around various rituals and traditions that we have created that become the way that 'church' is done and then perhaps on a monthly basis people might be able to stay back for a pot luck luncheon for fellowship. I wonder if we have in some way got this wrong and perhaps the church services should be the adjunct to the shared meal on a regular basis, not the current way?
Great topic. The “Lord’s Supper” or Communion (and perhaps even baptism) has, in my opinion, lost meaning to a degree in our churches. We know from Scripture what Communion is not – it is not a meal to satisfy our hunger (satisfy your hunger at home before coming together for Communion - 1 Cor 11:34); it is not a trivial matter – 1 Cor 11:27; and it is not a sacrament (1 Cor 11:26). The Supper is a proclamation (vs. 26), and I believe an affirmation of the New Covenant by the New Covenant people. It looks not only to Christ’s death, but the believer’s death “in Christ”.
I disagree that the Lord’s Supper is a communion in the context of a fellowship meal (having a meal with your family after church) but instead is an act of participation within the covenant of Christ. It is symbolic, but it is symbolic as a witness to our state in Christ. This is, I believe, why it is so serious a matter that people died for taking it in an unworthy manner.