I just wanted to add this Steven to me is looking for direction, but he is looking for it in the wrong way... Brethren on here can give him all the counsel he needs and answers the questions he ask but we can't mentor him... He needs someone in his life who can... How many of us on here can thank God in our lives who gave us Godly direction when we needed it?... I can think of many who God sent my way, who helped me along the way... One definitely was my Father and thank God for him everyday... To me that is what Steven needs and I doubt he will find that outside of the church... I had many spiritual mentors, brother and sisters in the church and that's what we all needed... Brother Glen