Are you Southern Baptist?
I'm a recovering Southern Baptist who attends a Southern Baptist church.
I have been critical of the convention for many, many years over what I considered to be some witch hunting that accompanied the Resurgence and the politicization of the convention. I prefer the 1963 BF&M to its recent incarnations. I am Augustinian in soteriology and have never been in a church with such inclinations.
All that said, none it affects where I attend church; my church is full of good people who want to serve Christ. The actions of the convention are almost inconsequential in that context. In all my years in Baptist churches, none has asked me to subscribe to any flavor of the BF&M, much less any of the innumerable resolutions, some of which I applaud and many of which I ignore or oppose.
The truth is that churches and pastors are increasingly post-convention in their outlook and don't consider themselves bound by what's decided in Nashville or even the outdated annual meetings that generate more heat than light.