Ephesians 5:22-23 22 Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body. 24 But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything.
You forgot to add the beginning of the passage Ephesians 5:21 -- the sentence that actually has the verb, translated "submit" or "subject.”
The passage, more literally, goes something like this:
Ephesians 5:21-22, 25, 6:1, 6:5, 6:9
5:21 ...submitting yourselves to one another in the fear of God:
5:22 The wives: To your own husbands subject yourself, as to the Lord.
5:25 The husbands: Love your own wives, as also the Christ did love the assembly...
6:1 The children: Obey your parents in the Lord, for this is righteous...
6:5 The servants: Obey the masters according to the flesh with fear and trembling...
6:9 And the masters: The same things [as the servants] do you unto them, letting threatening alone...
As you can see, since the verb translated "submit/subject to" is found in 5:21, everything that come past it refers back to the principle that we must all be subject to one another.
Wives subject to husbands, husbands subject to wives, children subject to parents, parents subject to children, servants/slaves subject to masters, and masters subject to slaves. Paul is taking the household code (the pecking order) and recasting it in the light of Christ, redefining all of the relationships, replacing power and authority with love and respect.
In Baptist life, this is a very unpopular view because of the way we have historically lived our lives. Moreover, many translations artificially begin a new paragraph at 5:22. The ancient Greek manuscripts have no paragraphs, so every time you see the text broken up, it is an interpretation.
Women are not called to be pastors or elders. I know proponents of woman pastors are locked and loaded when it comes to 1 Timothy 2:12. They are so tired of hearing that passage they want to rip it out of their bible.
We all need to avoid such people.
But the passage is there and it reveals a lot more than just a prohibition of women from serving as a pastor. Let us post the passage for the sake of discussion:
1 Timothy 2:12 But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet.
Yes, that passage can be translated that way, especially if you think that women cannot teach or "exercise authority" (dominate their husbands - not submit). However, the word translated "woman" in that passage can also be translated, "wife," which fits the cultural context better, since we have women in the New Testament who teach. In the early church, there would generally be a teacher or teachers who would lead in a teaching time, with the other members of the congregation asking questions. Paul provided a helpful guide to avoiding trouble. Note that this is HIS rule ("I do not allow..."), not from the Lord. Apparently, what was happening is that a man would teach and would be quizzed by the congregation in the learning process, but some wives might ask questions of their own husbands that would publicly correct them or would stump them. This would have the effect of causing tension in a marriage, so Paul wanted them to ask questions of their husbands in the privacy of their own homes. The principle would apply to the husbands not to embarrass their wives when they were teaching or preaching. Remember that women preached in the early church (see 1 Corinthians 11:5) and Paul suggested head coverings as a cultural sign that women were submitting to men (as part of mutual submission), but he made it clear that it was simply his suggestion and the Corinthians could ignore it if they wanted to do so (1 Corinthians 11:16).
However, Paul does not make his statement in a vacuum. He appeals to the creation narrative.
Paul writes, "For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve" (1 Tim. 2:13).
Sure. But remember that Adam and Eve are the model for the marital relationship, and the transgression came because Eve did not submit to God nor her husband. Paul is simply point the women to consider Eve's sin of using her freedom selfishly.