Dave G
Well-Known Member
Apologies to the OP for reversing my decision to not reply again in the thread,
but I thought it prudent to address one of its posters a final time:
Or at least that is the way it comes across to me.
May I suggest that when you object to someone's treatment of you, that you also be mindful of how you come across to others?
I admit to having difficulty in that area, but I'm learning every day that it is more important how I say something, than it is to simply pop things off the top of my head.
It's been difficult since I've joined this forum, but it seems the Lord is granting me power over my nasty flesh, and He is making progress in me.
However, I've still a long way to go, I imagine.
In the meantime, may I make a suggestion?
How about re-wording a post like the above to state:
" His Dave, once again I respectfully find that I must disagree with you" or something along those lines?
Since the Lord tells us that in many things we offend all ( James 3:2 ), and to leave off strife ( fighting ), unless we want to really get things going ( Proverbs 17:14 ), it is therefore best if we watch our comments carefully, so as to minimize the effect that they have when they are received.
Wouldn't you agree?
I put this out there knowing full well that I have not been as obedient in this area as I would have liked to have been, and there are doubtless members here that would agree with my observation...
But on my end, I promise to keep working at it because I really would like to eventually come to the place that I am void of offense towards both God and men.
May He also bless you in your efforts to be at peace with all.
but I thought it prudent to address one of its posters a final time:
Thanks for the disparaging comment, Van,HI Dave, once again your assertions are bogus
Or at least that is the way it comes across to me.
May I suggest that when you object to someone's treatment of you, that you also be mindful of how you come across to others?
I admit to having difficulty in that area, but I'm learning every day that it is more important how I say something, than it is to simply pop things off the top of my head.
It's been difficult since I've joined this forum, but it seems the Lord is granting me power over my nasty flesh, and He is making progress in me.
However, I've still a long way to go, I imagine.

In the meantime, may I make a suggestion?
How about re-wording a post like the above to state:
" His Dave, once again I respectfully find that I must disagree with you" or something along those lines?
Since the Lord tells us that in many things we offend all ( James 3:2 ), and to leave off strife ( fighting ), unless we want to really get things going ( Proverbs 17:14 ), it is therefore best if we watch our comments carefully, so as to minimize the effect that they have when they are received.
Wouldn't you agree?
I put this out there knowing full well that I have not been as obedient in this area as I would have liked to have been, and there are doubtless members here that would agree with my observation...
But on my end, I promise to keep working at it because I really would like to eventually come to the place that I am void of offense towards both God and men.
May He also bless you in your efforts to be at peace with all.
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