We agree that everyone is born “spiritually dead in sin”.
However, there is no “THUS”. You have made a non sequitur (the conclusion does not follow from the evidence that preceded it). We do not agree that no one is “elect” at birth, we merely agree that no one is born justified at birth. Election is not the same as justification.
- [Rom 3:10-12 NASB] 10 as it is written, "THERE IS NONE RIGHTEOUS, NOT EVEN ONE; 11 THERE IS NONE WHO UNDERSTANDS, THERE IS NONE WHO SEEKS FOR GOD; 12 ALL HAVE TURNED ASIDE, TOGETHER THEY HAVE BECOME USELESS; THERE IS NONE WHO DOES GOOD, THERE IS NOT EVEN ONE."
- [Eph 2:1-3 NASB] 1 And you were dead in your trespasses and sins, 2 in which you formerly walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, of the spirit that is now working in the sons of disobedience. 3 Among them we too all formerly lived in the lusts of our flesh, indulging the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, even as the rest.
- [Rom 8:28-30 NASB] 28 And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to [His] purpose. 29 For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined [to become] conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brethren; 30 and these whom He predestined, He also called; and these whom He called, He also justified; and these whom He justified, He also glorified.
All things are “according to HIS purpose”, so God is the first cause and the prime mover in what follows, not the will of man. God FOREKNEW, God PREDESTINED and God CALLED all before God Justified, so where is the smoking gun that utterly refutes the possibility that God’s “Chosen” (aka ‘elect’) were Foreknown and Predestined before they were born (like Moses and Sampson and John the Baptist) and were “chosen/elect” even before they were called and they came into the fullness of their relationship at “just the right time” (like Moses at the burning bush or Saul on the road to Damascus).
I did not see where you explained how a spiritual dead person could be elect, or not yet justified. If a person is not yet justified, then a charge can be made detailing their sins. But if a person is justified, no charge can be made because our all powerful God had made them righteous.
Next you seem not to understand my view of Romans 8:28-30. First, the chain starts with those individuals that love God. Therefore during their lifetime and not before creation. Next, they are "called" meaning they have been transferred into Christ, according to God's purpose.
Next, verse 29, God says He foreknew those who have been redeemed. This means He formulated His plan of redemption beforehand (before creation) and the plan including redeeming believers as the target group of the plan, and that those redeemed would also be predestined to be (1) conformed to the image of His Son, and (2) predestined to be raised in glorified bodies at Christ's second coming.
Now in verse 30, referring back to His redemption plan, and the target group of believers, God says He also at the present time (1) called (transferred in Christ) and also (2) justified (by the washing of regeneration) and (3) glorified (by seating them in the heavenlies.)