True, world in John does not so much refer to bigness as to badness. In John's vocabulary, world is primarily the moral order in willful and culpable rebellion against God. In
John 3:16 God's love in sending the Lord Jesus is to be admired not because it is extended to so big a thing as the world, but to so bad a thing; not to so many people, as to such wicked people. Nevertheless elsewhere John can speak of "the whole world" (
1 John 2:2), thus bringing bigness and badness together. More importantly, in Johannine theology the disciples themselves once belonged to the world but were drawn out of it (e.g.,
John 15:19). On this axis, God's love for the world cannot be collapsed into his love for the elect. (D. A. Carson. The Difficult Doctrine of the Love of God)
Here it seems to me that Mr. Carson is trying with all his might to grapple with something that may offend some people with the results of, and is skirting around the tough questions that arise in people's minds when the love of God is discussed.
Take for example the "Calvinist" stance:
God loves His elect, the ones made righteous by the blood of His Son.
He hates the wicked, those that were not made righteous by the blood of His Son, those that run to sin with no regard for the consequences or of the fact that those sins offend His holiness, and those who will never, of their own volition, repent and seek reconciliation with Him.
The fact that He loves anyone is a miracle of His grace and mercy, and the fact that He hates those who hate Him and love their sin is is testament to His holiness and justice.
To most who profess Christ, these statements are offensive.
Why?
Because to them it does not portray the God of the Bible, but a god of the "Calvinist" making.
Yet, when the actual words on the page are brought forth in support of it, most seem to turn a blind eye to those very same words and simply go with what some preacher told them the love of God consists of.
In other words, they simply disagree with the "Calvinist interpretation" of the words, and go with the "Cliff's Notes" version, in summary.
This leads me to state unequivocally that I believe today's churches are literally
filled with people who believe in an impotent god who cannot save without man's "permission", who extends His hand in reconciliation to a people that very often spit on it, and relies on
man's will to determine whether or not He saves someone instead of His own will and purposes.
They believe that He loves everyone, is not willing that any man perish ( but is equally powerless or chooses to stand back and watch as man goes over the edge of the cliff after giving them "a certain number of chances" to "accept Christ as Lord and Saviour" ), sent His Son to pay for
everyone's sins ( and that they actually were paid for at the cross ) and that the sin of unbelief is the only one not forgiven and will cause those who reject Christ to be cast into Hell...
Even though the rest of their sins were supposedly paid for at the cross and the Bible says that every man will be judged according to His works ( Revelation 20:12 ).
To me, there is a major Scriptural inconsistency in this teaching that God loves everyone and sent His Son to die for everyone, and that "world" in every case where it seems to speak as if referring to all mankind, actually does.
But, that does not mean that "world", in some or many cases does not mean, "the world of men" or "the race of men".
I just disagree that it means, "each and every man woman and child who ever lived".