I am not avoiding the question. You ate taking my comment out of my view and placing it into yours in order to challenge it. Arguments do not work that way.You avoided and ran around the question.
You state that, from conception, children are not in Christ.
Thus, they are by nature apart from Christ and in need of God's gracious redemption so that they are found in Christ.
You make salvation to be by works when you claim that infants have not sinned and are therefore righteous. This is the equivalent of a corrupted computer program that you think isn't corrupt until the computer is turned on, even though the code was corrupt from the beginning of the creation of that computer.
Jon, God must graciously choose to redeem infants from conception onward as they are corrupted from conception onward. They don't become corrupt only after they show evidence of their corruption as you are implying
What was happening on the Cross? God was reconciling man to Himself. Man is reconciled to God. Men need to be reconciled.
Aborted children experience the wages of sin. The question goes to the Judgment.
What sins do you believe damn aborted children?