You know what I am asking. I am asking you to look at the Bible and tell me to whom that verse is addressed. I am asking you to show in scripture how God personally saves someone. Nowhere in the Bible do we see God quietly knocking on a rebels door and asking that person to pretty please let me in. Nowhere. Therefore, any use of Revelation 3:20 as a salvation verse is pure eisegesis and zero exegesis from the passage.Isn't that the scripture in question? I'm not sure what you want. I don't feel any need to defend Edwards to you if that is what you mean. I gave you the reference. Look up his use of the passage. The fact is in your zeal to ruin someone's joy that they got out of a particular verse you stepped in it because one of the most brilliant reformed theologians of all time used it the same way. But rather than just say well, OK, you tried to take Edwards on. You said to me I bounce around trying to please everyone but I can't help you here. Dig out of this on your own, defender of Reformed Theology.
Now, if you want to misuse the Bible in hopes of "persuading" a rebel to stop rebelling, that is between you and God. But don't pretend for a second that Jesus was using that statement to speak to the unregenerate people in Laodicea.