Well, for one thing, I don't deny that basic truth. I tell anyone who will listen that Christ died for them. Why do you think most of the attacks on me come from Calvinists and Primitive Baptists? I'm just explaining to you that you make a mistake when you do the way you do like above. You have in your mind the view that Calvinism can't be true because of the scenario that you have set up. I show you how it can, specifically, and your only answer is that I speak in generalities. What is more specific than the fact the the high Calvinists like Owen taught that you can come to Christ and if you do you will be saved. He said that and I can prove it so you are not free to make up a scenario that is different and then argue against what you made up. Come on!
If you think you can get way with ambiguous deflections, you have another think coming.

Your doctrine says only the elect will listen, so to tell those who will listen, that Christ died for them is a dodge.
I make no mistake when I present the TULIP decoded, rather than encoded.
I did not "set up" a scenario present in published doctrines.
You do state generalities as if they applied. Obfuscation on display.
I never mentioned "Owen" or "high Calvinists" nor do I make up misrepresentations.
That Sir, is your bag.
In summary here is the "decoded" TULIP.
T = total spiritual inability, no capacity to seek God or trust in Christ.
U = Unconditional Election, God chose individuals before creation not based on any of their characteristics.
L = Limited Atonement, Christ provides salvation only for supposedly previously chosen elect individuals.
I = Irresistible Grace, God alters and enables the elect to seek God and trust in Christ.
P= Once saved, always saved.
God's word says the lost seek God.
God's word says everyone believing into Him shall not perish, but have eternal life, thus salvation is conditional.
God's word says Christ became the means of reconciliation for the whole world, all of humanity.
God's word says God credits our faith, rather than instilling righteous faith.
God's word says once saved, always saved, for we shall never perish.