Bestowing His favor upon one and saving them for an eternal relationship with Him and His Son, while justly reserving another for judgement and eternal punishment in the Lake of Fire?
It is His right, His privilege and His prerogative... and we as men have absolutely no say in the matter whatsoever, Charlie.
It is what God's word tells us:
"What shall we say then? [Is there] unrighteousness with God? God forbid.
15 For he saith to Moses, I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion.
16 So then [it is] not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy.
17 For the scripture saith unto Pharaoh, Even for this same purpose have I raised thee up, that I might shew my power in thee, and that my name might be declared throughout all the earth.
18 Therefore hath he mercy on whom he will [have mercy], and whom he will he hardeneth.
19 Thou wilt say then unto me, Why doth he yet find fault? For who hath resisted his will?
20 Nay but, O man, who art thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed [it], Why hast thou made me thus?
21 Hath not the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honour, and another unto dishonour?
22 [What] if God, willing to shew [his] wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction:
23 and that he might make known the riches of his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had afore prepared unto glory,
24 even us, whom he hath called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles?" ( Romans 9:14-24 ).
All of the saved are the recipients of His grace and mercy, and especially His favor.
That favor is a result of:
Grace, which is the Lord doing everything for us, and leaving nothing undone or Him relying on the "weakest link in the chain" ( us ), for example.
Not a result of:
Works, which would be Him leaving something up to fallen sinners to perform for Him ( thereby leading to a merit / reward system ).. and then using that to decide who to save.
God's grace towards us abases men ( as it should ), while works exalts men ( which He will not tolerate ), and feeds that pride which exists in every one of us... were it not for His giving us the new birth.
Read the passage again, my friend; It's not "Calvinism"...
It's the truth.
To all:
And the seriousness of the situation is definitely not something to joke about.