Well, with much respect, this is your problem, not mine. Is the Bible God's word, or is it not? The Bible teaches Particular Atonement. If you don't like that, you have a problem.
Luke 10:21-22.
'In that hour Jesus rejoiced in the Spirit and said, "I thank you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, that You have hidden these things from the wise and prudent and revealed them to babes. Even so, Father, for so it seemed good in Your sight.
All things have been delivered to Me by My Father, and no one knows who the Son is except the Father, and who the Father is except the Son, and the one to whom the Son wills to reveal Him.' OK, tell me how this text teaches general atonement.
What I have not seen from you or
@Silverhair is any real interaction with what I post. I am sick to death of posting the same stuff over and over again and getting nothing back except to be told that I don't believe the Bible when I'm the one who keeps posting it!
We are supposed to be discussing the New Birth on this thread and it's an important doctrine, but instead it has gone the way of just about every other thread, into yet another sterile Cal v, Arm non-discussion.
Now, having got that little rant off my chest, I want to give you a quote from Dr. D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones' book,
What is an Evangelical? (Banner of Truth Trust, 1992). Here he is talking about essentials and non-essentials
'One is the belief in election and predestination. Now I am a Calvinist; I believe in election and predestination; but I would not dream of putting it under the heading of essential. I put it under the heading of non-essential. Mark you, I would condemn Pelagianism; I would say that Pelagianism is a denial of the truth of the Scripture with regard to salvation - that goes out. But I am thinking of Arminianism in its various forms, and so I do not put this into the category of essential. I do not for the reason that this, for me, is a matter of understanding. You are not saved by your precise understanding of how this great salvation comes to you. What you must be clear about is that you are lost and damned, hopeless and helpless, and that nothing can save you but the grace of God in Jesus Christ and only Him crucified, bearing the punishment of your sins, dying, rising again, ascending, sending the Spirit, regeneration. These are the essentials.
Now when you come to ask me, How exactly do I come to a belief in this? I say that that is a matter of the understanding of the mechanism
of salvation, not of the way
of salvation. And here, while I myself hold very definite and strong views on that subject, I will not separate from a man who cannot accept and believe the doctrines of election and predestination, and is Arminian, as long as he tells me that we are all saved by grace, and as long as the Calvinist agrees, as he must, that God calls all men everywhere to repentance. As long as both are prepared to agree about these things I say that we must not break fellowship.
Just to add, there are several Arminians who are members in my church. So long as they understand that the ministry of the church will be basically Calvinistic, and do not seek to cause division over the issue (Titus 3:10), there is no problem.