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Discussion in 'General Baptist Discussions' started by Steven Yeadon, Sep 21, 2017.

  1. Steven Yeadon

    Steven Yeadon Well-Known Member
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    Thank you, good to know.
     
  2. Steven Yeadon

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    OK, I will come out and say it since I was told this in another thread: Should I just join an Independent Baptist Church? Wouldn't such a church fit me far better?

    Also, because of the women in leadership positions thing alone, my pastor has said it would probably go against my conscience to stay at my current church. I remember he told me that, and I think he is right.
     
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    That would depend on the IFB church. They are all different.
     
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  4. Steven Yeadon

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    That probably just means I have to start looking. Does anyone know some churches to recommend other than the two Reformed did? I still have to look into those two churches too.
     
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    Or.... start one emphasizing the distintives you believe to be important. Then if you become successful with getting it off the ground, you can experience having other people criticize you. :Biggrin

    Brother, what goes around comes around! :Wink
     
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    I felt the same way when Penn State removed Coach Paterno' s statue.
     
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    No, not really. My church uses the 1963 BF&M confession.

    That is not supposed to be the purpose of the BF&M. It is not a creed, but a confession. It is directed to outsiders to explain the basic points of view of the majority of the members of our Baptist church. It has only been used as an "instrument of accountability" for certain denominational employees who are not politically secure.

    You missed all the discussion, heated language and controversy surrounding the confession nearly 18 years ago. I lived through it and participated in it. What you are looking at are people who generally accept the 2000 BF&M. Many of us don't, and those still hold to the 1963 BF&M.
     
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  8. Katarina Von Bora

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    Steven, I must join some of the others in finding your posts to be confusing with little clarity. You have never responded to the scriptures I provided on POTS.

    1. I don't think you are an Arminian. It's seems you prefer kind of an eclectic mix. That will always cause some doctrinal problems.

    2. No birth control. I can agree it's a real problem if it is a deliberate. Dr. Al Mohler wrote a great article regarding deliberate childlessness:
    http://www.albertmohler.com/2005/06/07/deliberate-childlessness-moral-rebellion-with-a-new-face-2/

    There are good reasons to limit one's family size. Ever heard of Tay Sach disease?

    I am the Director of Music at my church. It's an executive position, but I do not attend the meetings of the Elders.



    I hope you will find peace.
     
  9. Steven Yeadon

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    I guess I don't see the problem because my perspective increasingly makes perfect sense to me. I am increasingly secure with most of my beliefs, which when taken together leaves me fairly extreme in Christianity. However, I view these things as clearly attested to by the bible and thus proper doctrine.

    As to your points I'll just come out and say it is guys like this that make more and more sense to me:
    Calvary Chapel and Maranatha Music

    Menno Simons is also my new go to historical theologian.

    I am finding more and more peace over time as I search with all my heart for the Lord, our Father in heaven's truth. I think my real issue was honestly spending so much time in that TULIP debate, which is the one theological issue that never seems to end in my mind. It robs me of peace really, but I must understand it to find out what the playing field for predestination and free will doctrines are as attested to by the bible.
     
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    Steven, you are in way over your head. I suggest a break.
     
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    For the most part, this church rejects women leadership, birth control, charismatic following and is strictly Arminian. It's also KJVO to 'da max.

    Caution they do believe in vile words:



    He has been banned by at least 6 countries, for hateful rhetoric.
     
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    Baptists believe in Individual Soul Liberty. Therefore there are probably no 100% alike Baptists. Each Baptist will have his specific quirks and beliefs on secondary issues, however the primary issues (I.E Christ is THE Son of God, He died on the cross for our Sins and is THE only way to Heaven) are what unite Christians in fellowship.

    I think you ought certainly define what your own beliefs are on secondary issues, but I would not break fellowship over primary issues.

    Ex: I go to a Free Will Baptist Church even though I lean more towards Perseverance of the Saints. The agreement on primary issues, combined with the Bible based teachings, and the fellowship of other Saints makes me stay despite secondary issues.

    "Unity in necessary things; liberty in doubtful things; charity in all things"
     
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    I believe our doctrine should encompass two different lists of distinctives. First of all our core beliefs:

    1. The verbal inspiration of the Scriptures.

    2. The virgin birth and deity of Jesus.

    3. The substitutionary death of Jesus.

    4. The resurrection of Jesus Christ.

    5. The second coming of Christ.

    Once you have those 5 fundamentals you can move onto the next set of distinctives:

    1. Biblical Authority

    2. Autonomy of the Local Church

    3. Priesthood of the Believer

    4. Two Ordinances

    5. Individual Soul Liberty

    6. Saved, Baptized Church Membership

    7. Two Offices - Pastor and Deacon

    8. Separation of Church and State

    After that, all else is peripheral.

    I have some preferences. Things I prefer but which are not a reason to avoid fellowship or membership over.

    1. Byzantine based bible translation.

    2. Conservative music, traditional psalms and hymns and spiritual songs.

    3. Expository preaching.

    4. Particular Redemption.

    5. Closed communion.

    6. Seminary educated pastoral staff.

    7. Discipling of new converts.

    8. Strong, bible based, youth program.

    9. Compassionate outreach to help meet community needs.

    10. Reconciliation, not condemnation.
     
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    My brain is stressed out on theological stuff for now, which says a lot as I was halfway to an MDiv specializing in theological studies a few years ago. I am thinking of relaxing, letting ideas percolate in my brain, reading religious literature, and just responding to threads instead of making new ones unless its an easy issue to me. Nothing adventurous like my last few threads.
     
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    Wow, is this stuff associated with Way of Life ministries? He is openly hateful (Matthew 5:43-48), he is openly hostile (Matthew 5:21-26), he is uncontrolled (Galatians 5:22-23), and he forgets to have a good reputation with outsiders (1 Timothy 3:7); among many other verses, from his pulpit.
     
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    If you are asking, you are probably one foot out the door brother1 I'd say, go, and don't let the door hit you where the where the naturalness of your body split you1
     
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    Yes, most of us are Calvinistic and Armenians are at times excluded from Ordination because they lack a full understanding of grace. There is no priesthood of the believer at that juncture. Personally I prefer Mr. Wesley as he does not endorse either saying keep on preaching the gospel fellas. When either systems are used it seems to me they end up in the new heresay saying I am saved with no walking in Jesus steps. Keep on preaching the gospel. Jesus saves, Jesus saves.
     
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    Uh, what?
     
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    I think even the most zealous 5-point Calvinists in the SBC will readily admit that they are not in the majority, and Armenians (nor Arminians) are excluded from ordination in any systemic way.

    Ordination is a local church activity, and I'm sure candidates sometimes are not ordained for doctrinal issues, but I've never heard of anyone being declined ordination for being Armenian or not being a five-point Calvinist.
     
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    Why would someone be denied ordination for being from Armenia? :)
     
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