Larry, evidence for my accusation was on the same page (this page) as your response. You wrote: "In your position, it seems that God has rendered himself helpless and dependent on the obedience of man. "
So where is the misrepresentation of your position? You will notice by reading closely (or even not so closely) that I said nothing about what you believe, but rather what "it seems" that your position entails.
I realize you do not believe that God rendered himself helpless. I don't know how you avoid it though, based on what you have said. That is why I said "it seems." I think perhaps your objection is based on the fact that you focused on the word "helpless" rather than "it seems" (indicating a inference drawn) and "rendered himself" indicating that God has chosen not to help people beyond this universal enabling.
To allow man to have a choice regarding his own salvation is not to render Himself helpless! Rather it is to show that He is far, far more sovereign than anything He allows us to have a say in.
So when God allows man to have a choice regarding his own salvation (something I don't deny, BTW), what does God then do? Does he do something in the individual to bring belief about? Does he sit back and let him live his life and see what happens?
Here is where, if I understand your position correctly, God enables every man and then sits back and lets life play out. He does not intervene in the life of one person more than another. He gives them all an equal chance to accept or reject.
Even in human terms your words are nonsense. If a parent allows a child a choice about what to do for a birthday, or what classes to take in school, or what to eat for dinner, the parent is most certainly not rendering him or herself helpless and dependent on the obedience of the child. The parent is far more powerful in the child's life than that, and far more in control.
As I have pointed out before, your analogies don't work. They are flawed. But this one not so bad as most. When the child makes a bad choice (i.e., for my birthday party I want beer, ice cream, and strippers), the parent overrules.
Yet, if I understand your position correctly, you say that when the unbeliever makes a bad choice (i.e., I don't want to believe and get saved), God will not step into overrule.
So if you read my original statement, I did not say that God was helpless. I said that it seems he has rendered himself helpless because, if I understand your position correctly, God will not step in to overrule a bad decision.
And by stating what you do, time and time again, you are seriously misrepresenting what I believe and what thousands of others believe, too.
Then please show how. You made this statement previously, and when I asked for an example, all you did was point out that you missed the words "it seems" which indicated I was attempting to draw a conclusion based on what you said; I was not in any way defining your beliefs.
In the meantime, by the way, I stand by my opening post. That is one of the places where you squirrel your way around a problem in the Bible to try to support Calvinism.
As was ably and simply demonstrated, your opening post was flawed. I dealt with the words of Paul in their context, and showed that you were incorrect. In other words, it is you who has squirreled around the text.