When I graduated seminary I believed I was being called into the ministry and what I did was work with my church in their teaching ministry, pulpit supply and was licensed to the ministry.
Where I am now (I've been out of the military for a little over 2 years) is that I preach occasionally and have been at my church for about 8 months. I believe that I'm called to the ministry vocationally, but there are some road blocks.
Road blocks of my own making is that I am very hesitant to even consider leaving my church. My family and I love the people. We are a family. I hesitate to consider leaving my job. My primary income is military retirement and VA, but I manage a company that my best friend owns. It'd be hard to leave my church and my job. It would be hard, but I think I would.
Which brings me to road blocks not of my design. There are 8 churches (all of these are small churches, the largest having about 130 members) in my area that are without pastors. Three of these are looking for full-time pastors, five for bi-vocational pastors. All have been searching for well over a year. All require a seminary education (which I have...except for the church with 130 members which is seeking someone with a doctorate). But all also require at least 5 years experience as a senior pastor (which I don't have).
Then I look at my church (it's a fairly small church, about 300 members) and notice that I am not the only seminary graduate at my church in the same boat. Now don't get me wrong, I know that I need to gain experience. I cannot compete with the retired pastors now filling those pulpits as interim pastors. But I sometimes wonder about the how potential candidates are considered.
I'm not talking about being hired, I'm talking about being interviewed and, if that went well, prayerfully considered. One can't gain experience as a pastor without filling the position of a pastor, and one can't fill the position without experience. (At my last church I remember a man talking the pastor into making up a position for him - "full-time", but unpaid and in his spare time - so that he could consider that as experience. It worked for him, but I'm not willing to do that as it doesn't seem honest to me).
What would be your suggestions to someone like me, someone who has graduated seminary but doesn't have experience?