I don't really understand what you are saying here.
jesus Great prayer was for ALL of the saved to be One, JUST as he and the Father are one, so unless he did not mean that, why do we keep trying to divide ourselves along lines God does not intend for us to go to war over?
You are not a cal. i am, buit we sem to be able to have rationale discourse here, so why must we seperate over issues ?
And don't MOST churches havea mixture of various held beliefs, some cal, some non cal, others arminian. free will grace etc...
Guess don't take my calvinism "hard enough", as I don't hold that it is the Gospel, but that it does explain the Gospel and justification/salvation/sauctification the closest to the bible message!