Thank you, Darrell.
The problem with this area is that it's lost population over the years. There used to be a Boy Scout camp here when I was younger, but it closed a few years ago. The reason given was that it was too isolated! There are hardly any young people here now; there are no jobs, and it's too far to drive somewhere else. So, people have moved out. Years ago, there were lots of small hill farms. But it got to the point where people couldn't make a living farming those hill farms. My dad was one of those. We had 160 acres when I was a kid, but we had to sell it.
Our little church is one of those old-fashioned white frame buildings with two doors on the front, such as was common many years ago. I'd hate to see it go to nothing, but it looks like that's where it's headed.
I agree that it would be a shame to see such an old fellowship fall away.
In reading a few of your posts I was tempted to repost yesterday but didn't, because I do not want you take this the wrong way, and mean no insult. But seeing that you do not believe in original sin and make it clear that you are not Calvinistic in your beliefs (I am not Calvinist but there are a number of things I might be found in agreement with them on, such as the depravity of man) I might suggest to you that despite the fellowship you (or I) attend, it is doubtful that you are going to find a collective unity among any given congregation (though I will say that certain groups maintain a closer unity because their doctrine stands apart from others and they are united, at least, on those fronts).
The point is this: while you may not agree with everything that is embraced by your fellowship, that does not mean those you fellowship with must be despised or thought not to belong to the Lord. I do not necessarily speak of the groups many consider cults, but the more mainstream among the denominations. For example, I have met Charismatics that are more conservative than some fundamentals I have know, and vice versa. I have met Catholics that understand that Christ alone can save.
So why do they still attend?
Because of the Body. In other words, because of their love for the people they fellowship with. If I were to depart from my own fellowship because I disagreed with my Pastor, or knew that there are many that know very little of the Doctrine that is actually in the Statement of Faith...I would have sought another fellowship years ago. The problem with that is this: I would find the same thing wherever it is that I settled when I left there, lol.
I have, in the past several years, considered what it means to be a "Baptist." The truth is that Baptists range in a diverse collection of beliefs in which, as this forum might show, might call for a separation between these "Baptists" on a doctrinal level. But again, the same diversity can be found in most fellowships. It may be that in a small congregation, such as yours might be, that this is less an issue, but, in larger groups you will find it.
All of that to get to one point: you yourself might want to look at your own doctrinal perspectives, and it might be that you may not be that different in views from those you say you are not one of. Take for example the depravity of man, which if I remember correctly you say you do not embrace. If you do not that can mean only that you believe that men have within themselves the ability to hear, understand, and believe the Gospel. While I would suggest that neither a historical Calvinist or Arminian view would endorse that, today this view would place one more in an Arminian camp. Which you say you are not.
Original sin? Perhaps you could explain what you think Original Sin speaks to and why you do not embrace that, and what it is you do embrace about Man's condition in regards to sin.
Again, not trying to offend, but for me, having since salvation attended more Fundamental Independent Baptist Churches, it is just unusual to me to think Doctrines such as these are not embraced, though I do not think we have to make these issues exclusive to Calv/Arm debates, because they are issues which have to be answered by every group, regardless of denominational affiliation.
Another issue I would raise, in regards to the population issue is this: don't think there are not people who will not drive a good distance to attend a fellowship they can relate with. We drive 30-35 minutes to the fellowship we attend, and would actually go a little further in order to attend a Bible teaching fellowship. So you may consider, in your visitation efforts, extending your borders. Think about it like this: your fellowship closes, and one day someone knocks on your door, tells you about their fellowship forty minutes away, and as you talk you see that your doctrinal views are similar.
Would you at least go and try that fellowship out? Likely you would, and likely those you invite would too.
Lastly, have you guys considered bringing in new leadership? It's a tough call, but an option that has arisen in similar situations I have been familiar with. Not that it is the leadership's duty to increase the fellowship (as one preacher said, "Shepherds don't make sheep...sheep make sheep!" lol), but a good Preacher and Pastor can make a difference.
Okay, just a few thoughts, and again, good luck with whatever happens. I am sure the Lord will make provision one way or another, that you might be found in the House of God...somewhere.
God bless.