Arminians, as well as Arminius, believe it is man's 'free will decision' which holds supreme authority in either accepting or rejecting the 'grace which is offered.'
If man's will determines to accept the grace which is offered, then grace is his for the asking.
If, however, man's will determines to reject the grace which is offered, then God respects and honors man's decision, never violating the will's freedom to reject.
Contrary to the belief system of ALL Arminians and Arminius,...
You erect strawmen so frequently you don't even realize you are doing it!
Amazing!