I understand the points that have been made.
First of all, I am not taking bits of Bible to try to fit "my point of view." It's the other way around. I have spent years reading the Bible cover to cover a number of times and praying for wisdom in discernment. My point of view is based on what the Bible is saying.
Now, to respond to a few points that were brought up.
There is a difference between a crime being committed and reparations needed and the accountability for that crime. There is kind of a fine difference here. The picture I have used before to try to explain it is the two year old shopping with Mom. Mommy puts lovely things in the basket and the nice man at the checkout puts them in bags for her. Toddler doesn't need a bag for his candy that he decided he wanted so he puts it in his pocket.
He has no concept of paying for it.
But he is guilty of shoplifting and the stolen candy must be paid for. When Mommy finds it, if she is honest, she will go back and pay for it. The toddler is guilty, but not accountable. However then Mommy must explain about paying for things. And, as a mommy, I know that toddlers don't always understand the first time you tell them. Some things just don't make sense to their immature minds. So the 'shoplifting' may happen a couple of times more before the lesson is finally accepted (though not always understood even yet!). Each time, Mommy pays.
Children are guilty of sin in thought, word, and deed. But Paul is very clear in Romans that this sin is dead -- and that means it does not have the power to separate the child from God -- because the law has not been known by the child. Nevertheless the sin must be atoned for, and that is what Jesus did on the cross. The atonement is for the sin, and the guilt of it. The fact is that He takes on the accountability for those who cannot yet be held accountable. The child is literally trapped with a sin nature. When you are trapped it means you are trapped. You cannot do anything outside of that trap. You did not set the trap yourself. You did not walk into it yourself in this case. You were born trapped. To then say the person is accoutable for being in that trap and living there is total injustice in every sense of the word!
And yet, yes, the sins require atonement. Mommy had to pay for the child. Jesus paid for all of us, even the little children. We can train them, but until they know the law involved in whichever case, they cannot in justice and righteousness be held accountable for acting according to their nature. We do not blame a horse for being a horse, a dog for being a dog, a rat for being a rat. We may kill rats, but we do not blame them for being rats!
Now, when God was ready to kill ALL the Israelites, that is approximately the same as killing all the people but Noah and family during the Flood. Babies, children, retarded -- they all went.
Keep in mind, however, that God knew that Moses would offer to stand in the gap. He already knew this. It was not a surprise to Him and God did not actually change His mind! He does not change. But there was a lesson that had to be driven home and a picture that had to be made. There would come a Man, later, who COULD and would stand in the gap for all of us. Moses was a picture of Christ in many ways, but he was not Christ. Nevertheless, the picture was vitally important and so had to be constructed.
Now, about visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children, yes! What did you want me to do, write the entire Bible again here for you? The consequences of the sins of the fathers are definitely visited on the children. It is not that the children are being held accountable for what their fathers did, but that what the fathers did had consequences far beyond themselves. Here is an example from our own family: when I married my children's father 30 years ago, I did not know he was taking amphetemines to get going fast on the job (he was doing carpentry piece-work at the time), although I knew he would have some beers to settle down at night. As a result, the one child we were able to have, who is now 28, has shown up with some problems they are learning are related to a father being on drugs, not just a mother (I wasn't). His immune system is weaker than many others -- he is frequently sick -- and he has a problem with tachycardia -- episodes of very rapid heartbeat that leave him weak and dizzy. Scott is in no way responsible for any of that. But he has had the iniquity of his father visited on him. The consequences of what we do spread out like ripples on a pond for several generations. That is what God was telling us through Moses.
If God was telling us that children are accountable for the sins of the fathers, then He contradicted Himself in Ezekiel. In chapter 18 it is made very clear that each person is held accountable for his own sins, as well as the fact that people can change. Ezekiel is clear that one person is not accountable for the sins of another. And yet we know for a daily fact that we do get the effects of others' sins visited on our own lives. So there is a big difference between the two.
Mark asked, "If sin is seperation from God and it first entered the world by a choice that Adam and Eve made to rebel, than How is it that sin is no longer a choice to rebel? Has God changed since then? " I think that the distinction here needs to be made between sin nature and the act of sinning. We are all born, courtesy of Adam and Eve, with sin nature -- hearts inclined toward evil (Genesis 8:21). But we do not always sin all the time! Sometimes we are -- even when not born again -- in neutral! Not good, mind you, but neutral. The tendencies are always there, but when a child is attempting to please a parent, for example, simply for the sake of making that parent happy, this is not sin.
Sin is disobedience. That's the short and the sweet of it, I think. We sin against God when we disobey His law, whether we know about the law or not. That is the point Calvinists make and very rightly so, but what is needed to be understood is the difference between guilt and accountability.
Here is another picture. Yesterday I got finally and totally tired of my profoundly retarded seventeen year old, autistic son sitting here in the den while I'm working and sneaking my very expensive Nature journals and thumbing through them. It doesn't sound bad, but he will thumb through something (in imitation of reading???) severely bending the pages and in rather short order pages end up being torn out and the magazine unreadable. No matter how many times I have given him old Sunsets and such, he loves the Nature journals. "Thou shalt leave my Nature journals alone" is my law. He is clueless (I.Q. is about 19 as far as they can measure it). So when he wants something new to thumb through, he LOOKS for a Nature journal! National Geographic is another favorite of his. Now there are just so many 'up' places he can't reach, considering he is now taller than I am!
SOOOOO, I went down to K-Mart and bought a pressure-fit kiddie gate to put across the den door when I don't want him in here. I took all his toys and allowable magazines and put them in a lower cabinet just off the pantry, where I used to keep homeschool stuff.
He was not pleased.
After a lovely dinner of baked fresh salmon, salad, and seasoned rice -- all of which we all love -- he went back to his room, stuck his finger down his throat, and threw it all up.
It is in his nature to rebel. He was not sick at all.
He did not pay attention to another law of mine: If you plan to throw up, please aim for the toilet. Even if I had told him THAT 'law', which all the other kids understood from very early on, he would not have understood it at all.
What should I do? Punish him? He would not connect the punishment with the vomit. He would only hear the tone of my voice or the sting of my hand if I were to try to 'spank' him and then there would be some moaning and tears running down his face. He wouldn't understand.
But I still had to clean up. There were still consequences, and I was the one to pay them.
I think God gave us situations in life to help us understand His teachings and Himself. We are finite and cannot understand more than a little of either in the long run, and Jesus DID say that if we loved Him we would obey Him -- He didn't say we would understand Him. Nevertheless, just as He used pictures from the daily life of the people as parables for the real truths, I think we can see from our daily lives some of what He is saying a little more clearly, too. That is why I use examples from my own daily life. It is not because my theology is based on them. It isn't. It is because parts of my daily life have helped bring the Bible into clearer focus. Having raised five adopted special case kids, the differences between consequences, guilt, and accountability have become strikingly clear to me. I hope that some of what I have shared here has made them a little more clear to you, too.
First of all, I am not taking bits of Bible to try to fit "my point of view." It's the other way around. I have spent years reading the Bible cover to cover a number of times and praying for wisdom in discernment. My point of view is based on what the Bible is saying.
Now, to respond to a few points that were brought up.
There is a difference between a crime being committed and reparations needed and the accountability for that crime. There is kind of a fine difference here. The picture I have used before to try to explain it is the two year old shopping with Mom. Mommy puts lovely things in the basket and the nice man at the checkout puts them in bags for her. Toddler doesn't need a bag for his candy that he decided he wanted so he puts it in his pocket.
He has no concept of paying for it.
But he is guilty of shoplifting and the stolen candy must be paid for. When Mommy finds it, if she is honest, she will go back and pay for it. The toddler is guilty, but not accountable. However then Mommy must explain about paying for things. And, as a mommy, I know that toddlers don't always understand the first time you tell them. Some things just don't make sense to their immature minds. So the 'shoplifting' may happen a couple of times more before the lesson is finally accepted (though not always understood even yet!). Each time, Mommy pays.
Children are guilty of sin in thought, word, and deed. But Paul is very clear in Romans that this sin is dead -- and that means it does not have the power to separate the child from God -- because the law has not been known by the child. Nevertheless the sin must be atoned for, and that is what Jesus did on the cross. The atonement is for the sin, and the guilt of it. The fact is that He takes on the accountability for those who cannot yet be held accountable. The child is literally trapped with a sin nature. When you are trapped it means you are trapped. You cannot do anything outside of that trap. You did not set the trap yourself. You did not walk into it yourself in this case. You were born trapped. To then say the person is accoutable for being in that trap and living there is total injustice in every sense of the word!
And yet, yes, the sins require atonement. Mommy had to pay for the child. Jesus paid for all of us, even the little children. We can train them, but until they know the law involved in whichever case, they cannot in justice and righteousness be held accountable for acting according to their nature. We do not blame a horse for being a horse, a dog for being a dog, a rat for being a rat. We may kill rats, but we do not blame them for being rats!
Now, when God was ready to kill ALL the Israelites, that is approximately the same as killing all the people but Noah and family during the Flood. Babies, children, retarded -- they all went.
Keep in mind, however, that God knew that Moses would offer to stand in the gap. He already knew this. It was not a surprise to Him and God did not actually change His mind! He does not change. But there was a lesson that had to be driven home and a picture that had to be made. There would come a Man, later, who COULD and would stand in the gap for all of us. Moses was a picture of Christ in many ways, but he was not Christ. Nevertheless, the picture was vitally important and so had to be constructed.
Now, about visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children, yes! What did you want me to do, write the entire Bible again here for you? The consequences of the sins of the fathers are definitely visited on the children. It is not that the children are being held accountable for what their fathers did, but that what the fathers did had consequences far beyond themselves. Here is an example from our own family: when I married my children's father 30 years ago, I did not know he was taking amphetemines to get going fast on the job (he was doing carpentry piece-work at the time), although I knew he would have some beers to settle down at night. As a result, the one child we were able to have, who is now 28, has shown up with some problems they are learning are related to a father being on drugs, not just a mother (I wasn't). His immune system is weaker than many others -- he is frequently sick -- and he has a problem with tachycardia -- episodes of very rapid heartbeat that leave him weak and dizzy. Scott is in no way responsible for any of that. But he has had the iniquity of his father visited on him. The consequences of what we do spread out like ripples on a pond for several generations. That is what God was telling us through Moses.
If God was telling us that children are accountable for the sins of the fathers, then He contradicted Himself in Ezekiel. In chapter 18 it is made very clear that each person is held accountable for his own sins, as well as the fact that people can change. Ezekiel is clear that one person is not accountable for the sins of another. And yet we know for a daily fact that we do get the effects of others' sins visited on our own lives. So there is a big difference between the two.
Mark asked, "If sin is seperation from God and it first entered the world by a choice that Adam and Eve made to rebel, than How is it that sin is no longer a choice to rebel? Has God changed since then? " I think that the distinction here needs to be made between sin nature and the act of sinning. We are all born, courtesy of Adam and Eve, with sin nature -- hearts inclined toward evil (Genesis 8:21). But we do not always sin all the time! Sometimes we are -- even when not born again -- in neutral! Not good, mind you, but neutral. The tendencies are always there, but when a child is attempting to please a parent, for example, simply for the sake of making that parent happy, this is not sin.
Sin is disobedience. That's the short and the sweet of it, I think. We sin against God when we disobey His law, whether we know about the law or not. That is the point Calvinists make and very rightly so, but what is needed to be understood is the difference between guilt and accountability.
Here is another picture. Yesterday I got finally and totally tired of my profoundly retarded seventeen year old, autistic son sitting here in the den while I'm working and sneaking my very expensive Nature journals and thumbing through them. It doesn't sound bad, but he will thumb through something (in imitation of reading???) severely bending the pages and in rather short order pages end up being torn out and the magazine unreadable. No matter how many times I have given him old Sunsets and such, he loves the Nature journals. "Thou shalt leave my Nature journals alone" is my law. He is clueless (I.Q. is about 19 as far as they can measure it). So when he wants something new to thumb through, he LOOKS for a Nature journal! National Geographic is another favorite of his. Now there are just so many 'up' places he can't reach, considering he is now taller than I am!
SOOOOO, I went down to K-Mart and bought a pressure-fit kiddie gate to put across the den door when I don't want him in here. I took all his toys and allowable magazines and put them in a lower cabinet just off the pantry, where I used to keep homeschool stuff.
He was not pleased.
After a lovely dinner of baked fresh salmon, salad, and seasoned rice -- all of which we all love -- he went back to his room, stuck his finger down his throat, and threw it all up.
It is in his nature to rebel. He was not sick at all.
He did not pay attention to another law of mine: If you plan to throw up, please aim for the toilet. Even if I had told him THAT 'law', which all the other kids understood from very early on, he would not have understood it at all.
What should I do? Punish him? He would not connect the punishment with the vomit. He would only hear the tone of my voice or the sting of my hand if I were to try to 'spank' him and then there would be some moaning and tears running down his face. He wouldn't understand.
But I still had to clean up. There were still consequences, and I was the one to pay them.
I think God gave us situations in life to help us understand His teachings and Himself. We are finite and cannot understand more than a little of either in the long run, and Jesus DID say that if we loved Him we would obey Him -- He didn't say we would understand Him. Nevertheless, just as He used pictures from the daily life of the people as parables for the real truths, I think we can see from our daily lives some of what He is saying a little more clearly, too. That is why I use examples from my own daily life. It is not because my theology is based on them. It isn't. It is because parts of my daily life have helped bring the Bible into clearer focus. Having raised five adopted special case kids, the differences between consequences, guilt, and accountability have become strikingly clear to me. I hope that some of what I have shared here has made them a little more clear to you, too.