I agree with much you post here. What I love about hymns are how they link generations. Tradition for tradition sake is not always good, but tradition itself is also not necessarily a bad thing. I'd be more content with contemporary praise music if they would settle down and stop changing every month. Throughout my life I've gained so much from the song's I've learned as a child and the theology that they contained. Many contemporary songs have a strong theological basis - but they change so often the message is lost. Perhaps this is why so many songs go from Christian radio to church. I don't know....just a thought.And this is topic is just one of the reasons why certain segments of Christianity subscribe to the Regulative Principle of Worship (we are to worship in the manner in which scripture prescribes) as opposed to the Normative Principle of Worship (we are allowed to worship in any manner not prohibited by scripture). The OP is from the Normative viewpoint. This is a debate that has raged forever and anon. No matter which approach to worship you practice, the idea that you can lead people to a "meaningful connection with the Holy Spirit" through music selection is theologically unsound. If it were true then those people who do not get with the music are left out in the cold. The church I attend recently changed from traditional hymns to a praise band. This is great for the Millennial generation, but it has been to the dismay of the many older saints in the church. I guess the Millennials now have a meaningful connection to the Holy Spirit while the seniors are viewed as intransigent and hindering the Holy Spirit. Subjectiveness in worship misses the biblical model.
But I'm also curious, do you believe that there was a time when Baptist hymns were considered "contemporary" and not suitable for worship (i.e., was there a time when the introduction of hymns left others "out in the cold")? It just seems "regulative" really does not mean to worship ONLY as Scripture prescribes (nothing but instruments mentioned in the Bible for worship, no dedicated church building, bringing your own meal to the Lord's Supper, etc.). Even "regulative" becomes subjective at some point.