Do you know this preacher? He is the one who is so eager to get a response to the invitation that he will keep broadening the appeal. Nobody comes to "get saved?" Then come for rededication. Or come to pray at the altar, wherever that is. Oh, it's where he is, I forgot. No response? Then it's time to hug your pew-neighbor, or go to someone whose been a blessing and tell them so.
He is convinced that if he can keep the congregation singing long enough, somebody will "step out of their seat" and come.
He is the evangelist who takes a lack of response as a personal affront. And the lack of response is always indicative of something terribly spiritually wrong with the congregation. We are cold, dead, or worse. It has to be that, since everywhere else he's preached, he's had hundreds of "decisions."
Don't get me wrong. The Lord saved me during an invitation. But it was nothing like I just described. I've seen the Holy Spirit convict, draw and save during invitations. It's just that some preachers conduct their invitations as if the Holy Spirit needs help.
Let me hasten to say that I am not talking about my pastor.