Dear Joshua,
You said...
"Gender" in the context of a language is a different animal from gender identity within the context of human social systems.
Yes, that is my point and would even go so far as to say that God is viewed with both masculine and feminine gender of function in the Scriptures.
Feminine function: To give birth, a feminine function.
John 3:6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
The New Covenant Spiritual birth is allegorically spoken of (Paul himself using the word "allegory") refering to Jerusalem "which is above", the mother of us all.
Masculine function :To beget
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, which according to his abundant mercy hath
begotten us; again unto a lively hope by the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead,
Both functions:
1 John 5:18 We know that whosoever is
born of God sinneth not; but he that is
begotten of God keepeth himself, and that wicked one toucheth him not.
Nevertheless, your metaphor is valid in that the linguistic "gender" of an object is not intrinsic to its identity. It changes depending on the language one is speaking. Likewise, God can be addressed as either masculine or feminine.
The metaphor breaks down, though, since God encompasses the personal attirbutes that are stereotypical masculine and feminine. It is not that we refer to God as Mother and Father because God is neither but because God is both.
Here we would not agree. Jesus uses the pronoun "He" of the "Spirit" which is feminine in Hebrew (Ruach) and neutral in Greek (Pneuma). Jesus overrides Greek grammar to force this point of the personhood of the Spirit, and His gender as well. This should come across in any translation of the Greek.
John 15:26 But when the Comforter is come, whom I will send unto you from the Father, even the Spirit of truth, which proceedeth from the Father,
he shall testify of me:
My view therefore is that while God may possess feminine attributes and function, these characteristics are the metaphorical or the allegorical but God in His essential person applied to each member of the Trinity is masculine in gender and sexually as well for the Second Person of the Trinity (He was circumcised according to the Scripture, Luke 2:21).
HankD