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  1. paidagogos

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    Well Brother, this appears to be your unsupported opinion and you are welcome to it. However, because you have presented no rationale or argument in support of your opinion, you have no stronger claim to validity than the pastor in the pulpit or Jack Hyles whom you used as illustrations. Now, can you give some Scriptural support for your opinion or do we reach for the delete key? :smilewinkgrin:
     
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    If you are right, then a preacher is prevented from making practical applications of what he preaches. So, each man does what is right is his own eyes. Ummmmmmmmm......sounds a little like Israel when they had no judge. What do you think?
     
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    First, I have never known nor heard of anyone who claims the Holy Spirit told them it was ok to listen to Ozzy.

    Secondly, you again insist on using the most extreme of examples. Why don’t you use Doris Day or Roger Whitaker in your examples? Is it because most would see it as ridiculous?

    Thirdly, why would the Holy Spirit tell one IFB’r that Calvinism is wrong but tell another IFB’r that it is truth? Why would He tell one Pre-mill pre-trib is truth but tell another A-mill is truth and tell another neither is truth?



    Why would you assume the Holy Spirit would not convict some one of this? I will say if the Holy Spirit isn’t convicting them on this issue, then your “hard preaching” against it sure won’t.




    Can you point to anyone who said or believes that one can do whatever they want?



    You hear that in a sermon?

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rocky_Mountain_High



    Ever read Newsweek or Sports Illustrated or Kiplinger’s or the Wall Street Journal or ever watch college football on ABC etc……If so you are making a lot of sinners a little wealthier. Ever eat at Pizza Inn or Arbys or Subway? Ever buy chewing gum or Pepsi or soap? If so you are taking God's money and making sinners a little wealthier.



    A little dramatic don’t you think?
     
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    You’ve got to be kidding right? I used to listen to Jack Hyles and Curtis Hudson and many other Sword of the Lord types. I’ve probably heard more Jack Hyles sermons than most IFB’rs. Are you denying Jack Hyles didn’t stand in the pulpit and tell women how they should dress? Are you telling me he never stood in the pulpit and told people how long their hair should be? Are you telling me he stood in the pulpit and never told anyone what version of the Bible to use? If this is what you are saying then you never heard Jack Hyles. By the way, you can’t delete my messages.




    I think you are in over your head. The problem is the application they are making and the twisting of scripture to make that application. See: http://www.godhatesfags.com/ for examples.
     
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    Are we getting way off topic or what?:wavey:
     
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    Maybe a little.:laugh:

    But I think we are getting to the answer of the original question.
     
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    No IFB'ers I've ever met or talked with ever said they were Calvinists or Arminians. Are you speaking of Refomed Baptists?
     
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    When IFB'ers preach about these things do they usually single certain people out in the general audience, or have them hauled off to their office for a "good talkin' to" after the service? I don't know about Hyles, but my Pastor didn't, at least not to my knowledge. A preacher shouldn't enforce morality on the general audience, but I do believe he has the authority to enforce it on his congregation: e.g. Deacons, Elders, etc. I'd agree with you that many of these IFB preachers dwell on these things too much, but they still need to be preached once in a while. Many people are against the kind of hard preaching that would put into question their choices, freedoms and liberty, which are based more on American individuality and culture than the Bible.
    I see you too can use extreme examples. Do you really think Fred Phelps and his group represents IFB'ers in general? I would seriously question whether these people are even Christians, much less IFB'ers.
     
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    Once again, who said such a thing? Did you see me advocate such a foolish notion?



    Both. I doubt you will find many in conservative churches who think Doris Day has led us to the brink of Hell. But who knows, Que Sera Sera



    Are you equating “hard preaching” with the words of the Prophets? We don’t need Prophets, we have their words and the NT prophets words in a Book. We don’t need “preachers”, we need teachers. The Word isn’t a hammer to beat on the head, it’s a sword that will cut the heart. Just teach people the Bible, and the Holy Spirit will do the rest.



    Unfortunately, I’ve heard many preachers stretch the truth or repeat an urban legend to prove a point.

    The “John Denver was high” claim sounds much like one. Unless of course you can verify. If you have ever been to the Rocky Mountains I don’t think you would question John Denver’s “state” when writing this song.



    Well, if you use windows you’re supporting Bill Gates. I believe Gates is pro-gay, therefore you are supporting the gay agenda. See how foolish that is? It like saying listening to John Denver or Doris Day is promoting a sinful life.



    You need chewing gum and Pepsi? Ever see any objectionable Pepsi commercials? Perhaps we would agree on the extreme example, but you can't use the extremes to formualte a standard. Just because some music is bad doesn't make it all "sinful".



    I’ll let the IFB’rs answer that, but my guess would be yes, either directly or indirectly. In fact, I know of one preacher who singled out a young man in the service about the length of his hair. The young man left and never returned and is now a middle aged man serving in another Baptist Church where he is not judged about the length of his hair. In fact I don’t even know how long his hair is now.



    They don’t need to be “preached” at all, just teach the Bible and the Holy Spirit will work on each individual in His time. But stick with what's in the Bible not personal convictions one might have.



    This is what the IFB’rs think, but it is not true. Perhaps it is true among some people and this is why they feel comfortable in an IFB Church. They constantly need to be told how sinful they are and how God is unhappy with them because of their choices. No thanks, not for me, been there. I am well aware of how sinful my heart is without some pulpit pounding, crew cut, screaming preacher telling me. Thank God for the Grace of God and that He chooses to love me anyway. When you get hold of that, then your desire for the ungodly things begin to disappear. I’ve still got a ways to go.



    To be perfectly honest, yes. Perhaps not in the vile way of Phelps, but there are similarities in style. And yes, he is an extreme example I used to make a point. I bet he would agree with your views you have expressed on this thread, especially the Elton John ones. I have not seen anyone on this board that really comes close to Fred Phelps though.
     
  11. Chris L.

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    You were suggesting I compare Doris Day to Ozzy Osbourne to show the foolishness of it all. I don't compare todays movies and music to the 50's in order that I might justify them, I compare them to the Bible and what God's thoughts might be toward such things for my life.
    Just because it was old and light hearted or frivolous doesn't make it right. Even some of music from the 50's hinted at premarital sex, adultery, etc. The old preachers were right in condemning some of it. I don't know about Doris Day, but she could've been a small link in a chain. There could've been no Elvis without Sinatra, no Beatles without Elvis, no Led Zepplin without The Beatles, no Black Sabbath without Led Zepplin, no Metallica without Sabbath, no Death Metal bands without Metallica...etc.
    Their "words" must've been pretty hard, because most of them were killed for it. Regarding Bible teaching, do you mean teaching things like modesty in dress, women looking and behaving like women? Men behaving like men and keeping their hair short? These are the words and thoughts of God. Why did God write them if they are not important?
    I've not heard the sermon on John Denver, but I've read quotes out of his own mouth. As long as John Denver's drug use or other sins doesn't show in his music or album covers I'd say he was ok to listen to, but I've been disappointed one too many times by people I've thought were "ok" and later found out were not. A Christian can't be to cautious when dealing with the world.
    I believe I can verify it but it might take some time. I've read somewhere that He himself said he was stoned on his motorcycle one day while riding in the Rocky Mountains, which gave him the idea for this song. That's were the "high" came from. This is an age old trick with musicians in masking what they are really trying to say. This song seems ok until one understands what the "high" really was. Then the whole thing falls into perspective. Part of the song's message is glorifying illegal drug use. I don't know about you but I don't like being deceived by someone that I thought was ok, and I try to give people the benefit of the doubt.
    There's a big difference, Windows can be used for all kinds of good. Nothing of any good can be used of an Ozzy Osbourne CD, except perhaps as a drink coaster. God can and does use other men's foolishness for good, and so can we.
    If they hint at or are glorifying pre-marital sex, adultery, drug use or other sins then they are promoting a sinful life, period. I don't care who they are or how old their music is.
    Why don't you show my whole quote? You also asked me if I ever ate at Pizza Inn, Arby's or subway. I do need food. I also need soap, well I don't need that but I wouldn't be very popular after awhile!
    A pastor should never jump on a new Christian about an issue until he has grown a little. It's to be expected that he may not change overnight. However, if someones been a member of a church for a long time, and is either so dense or unwilling to notice that everybody else around him does not look or act like him, then someone needs to say something. I don't know how long this long-haired guy was at this church.
    Remember that we are supposed to be a light unto the world. Do you think that most people would listen to or take seriously some guy with long hair and a Rolling Stones shirt when he tells them about Jesus and how much he could change their lives?
    Judged in what way? That he was going to hell? That's only for God to say, but we are to judge those we choose to associate with. If a man is willing to disobey God's word over something as simple as hair, what else is he disobeying? There are much worse sins to overcome than the sin of vanity. I guess this Baptist church doesn't take 1 Cor. 11:14 very seriously. What other parts of the NT do they also think doesn't matter?.
    You mean teaching things like modesty in dress, women looking and behaving like women? Men behaving like men and keeping their hair short?
    I do need to be reminded of how sinful I'am, lest I fall back into my old ways, which is all too easy to do nowadays. It keeps one modest, and one doesn't necessarily have to have an IFB preacher to do it either.
    I consider websites like Dial-a-truth ministries, Jesus-is-savior.com, and it's twin Jesus-is-Lord.com to be extreme fundamental sites, but none of them even comes close to the likes of Phelps' and crew. Fred Phelps is in a class all by himself, like David Koresh and Jim Jones, etc.
     
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    So lets lump them all together right?

    Lets see, if there was no John R Rice there would be no Jack Hyles and if there was no Jack Hyles then there would be no Fred Phelps. Logical I guess.



    Sure, but use scripture. Don’t condemn because what you think scripture says. Somehow IFB’rs always get back to the length of hair.


    I win! I win! :applause: :applause: :applause:


    Yea, I’m glad Christians have never disappointed me.



    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rocky_Mountain_High



    http://www.rapidnet.com/~jbeard/bdm/exposes/hyles/errors.htm

    http://www.rapidnet.com/~jbeard/bdm/exposes/hyles/sin.htm

    http://www.rapidnet.com/~jbeard/bdm/exposes/hyles/testim.htm



    If I remember right he was about to join the Military and let his hair grow out.



    Bingo! We have a winner. The answer to the original question. Your statement is exactly why people have problems with the IFB churches. Yet you can’t even see it.



    It just keeps getting better. You think they took John the Baptist serious? Did Jesus have a good Jewish crew-cut?



    Ah yes, more hypocrisy:


    1Co 14:34 Your women in the assemblies let them be silent, for it hath not been permitted to them to speak, but to be subject, as also the law saith;
    1Co 14:35 and if they wish to learn anything, at home their own husbands let them question, for it is a shame to women to speak in an assembly.

    Of course I’m sure in all IFB churches you never hear a women’s voice. Why don't you have your pastor preach this sunday and see how many amen's you get. And of those who amened, see how many got their wife to cook them sunday dinner.




    Come on, you really never have listened to Hyles? This is right out of his playbook.
     
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    I don't know what you are trying to say here, this seems like a weak come back to what I said. There would be no preachers at all if it wasn't for God, those musicians I was talking about are not of God.
    For the third time, scripture does teach about modesty for women's dress and the lenth of men's hair. I could tell it would be pointless to show you the verses though, and who said I condemned anyone for the lenth of their hair? Condemn is a stong word.
    Is your secular music so important to you?
    Yes, I can tell that it seems that many Christians have disappointed you, and I'm sorry for that, but I'm no longer adding a bunch of unbelieving, secular celebrities to my list of disappointments, along with the Christian ones.

    Why does everything with you come back to Hyles and Phelps? I'am not, nor have I ever been a fan of Jack Hyles. As a matter of fact, that's one of the reasons I left my IFB church. I heard more about him than about Jesus, and the man's doctrine and ministry was questionable. I try to distance myself from the man-worshiping, Riplinger, Ruckman reading extreme KJV-only type IFB's.
    Huh?
    Yes, people do have a problem with churches that let people who show no evidence of salvation and an unwillingness to obey simple commands of God to be members of their church. IFB Churches are not supposed to be social institutions or country clubs, and I don't know the whole story about the guy with long hair. There may have been other reasons why the pastor rebuked him.
    I believe that Jesus did not have long hair, or else Paul would have never written 1 Cor. 11:14, and the IFB Pastors I've met didn't have crew-cuts. I believe you are thinking of the 1950's.
    Whatever.
    Why is it that people think that it is every women's goal in life to be involved in everywhere they can and usurp the authority and leadership of men? Believe it or not, there are many women who actually obey and believe God's word, and don't try to meddle in everywhere they possibly can, nor do they have a desire to, and yes Our preacher has preached on this subject before, and we had a women missionary and a few Pastors wives speak at our church, but they never attempted to make their voices sound gruff like a man's, get all huffy and puffy or tried to upstage the Pastor or disrespect their husbands in some way.

    What is with you and Hyles? For a person who accuses people of extreme examples, that's all you seem to come up with. Have you ever been to a few IFB churches and met any regular people?

    I can see by your one-liner come backs that you haven't much to say anymore, and this conversation is proving to be fruitless as usual. If ever their was a more useless medium it's the internet forum. I'm done with this.

    P.S. Thank's for making it so difficult to quote you. That wasn't necessary.
     
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    You don’t think Jack Hyles is a fair representative of the IFB movement? He has influenced a lot of IFB preachers whether you wish to acknowledge it or not. And Phelps is the offspring of legalism without Grace, and judgment without compassion.



    Good, but your beliefs seem to line up perfectly with theirs.



    Not what you said:

    However, if someones been a member of a church for a long time, and is either so dense or unwilling to notice that everybody else around him does not look or act like him, then someone needs to say something.

    You seemed to suggest that if anyone didn’t look, dress, or act like you then they had spiritual problems. Thus, you are able to judge a man by his haircut.


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    There wasn’t. But if length of hair is an indicator of ones spiritual life, then you should applaud what the pastor did.



    And if those of the 50’s could see the IBF preachers of today, what do you think they would say about their hair?


    Hmmm, where in the passage does it say anything about usurping the authority or leadership of man? Where does the passage say anything about meddling? NOWHERE.


    1Co 14:34 Your women in the assemblies let them be silent, for it hath not been permitted to them to speak, but to be subject, as also the law saith;
    1Co 14:35 and if they wish to learn anything, at home their own husbands let them question, for it is a shame to women to speak in an assembly.

    Why don’t you interpret this verse the same way you did I Cor. 11:14? It is quite clear, women are not to speak.

    Perhaps this is how your pastor would preach this verse:

    Silence women! Shame on any women who speaks in an assembly! Real women of God keep their mouth shut! If you have a question you be silent till you get home! Don’t you take 1 Cor 14:35 seriously!

    How’s that for a good IFB sermon? Can I do a Revival with that?Do women talk in your Sunday school class or church?



    As I stated earlier, Hyles is the face of IFB to many of us. FYI, all of my mothers side of the family were raised in IFB Churches. All have left for these very reasons. My wife was raised in IFB Churches, I have rescued her from this “stuff”. My in-laws are still IFB members. My brother in law was raised IFB and married my wife's sister who also left the IFB circles. His dad was an IFB preacher and will die IFB. Yes, I’ve met plenty of IFb’rs. Great people but horribly brainwashed with this legalism.




    We agree. :thumbs: But at least I thoroughly answered your opening question.



    Somehow this doesn’t surprise me. I think I have just been lumped together with Ozzy Osborne and Elton John.

    Find help here: http://www.emmanuelenid.org/sermons/Romans/

    This might be a good one to start with: http://www.emmanuelenid.org/sermons/Romans/Romans11.htm

    Or perhaps this one: http://www.emmanuelenid.org/sermons/Kiss/Kiss30.htm

    They did wonders for me.
     
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    Perhaps this is how your pastor would preach this verse:

    Silence women! Shame on any women who speaks in an assembly! Real women of God keep their mouth shut! If you have a question you be silent till you get home! Don’t you take 1 Cor 14:35 seriously!

    How’s that for a good IFB sermon? Can I do a Revival with that?Do women talk in your Sunday school class or church?

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    Actually, i was raised in a IFB church where the women were not allowed to speak. Only men could conduct business, Only men were to hold offices, Only men could speak in SS, Only men could get behind the pulpit for anything....

    It was a Hyles like church....I am so glad God moved me from that craziness
     
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    I never experienced anything to that extreme at my church, but putting our personal feelings concerning women aside, do you feel that modern western culture might have some influence on our thinking and not God?

    It seems to me that many IFB churches today compromised quite a bit when it comes to women. Do you really think that the women of the early church had the same opportunities as they do now? Do you think they even wanted those opportunities like they do now, even when it was contrary to God's word? Women used to wear bonnets or head coverings until relatively recently in terms of history. They seemed to obey the Bible and took it even more literally then they do today. Were they wrong? If a Pastor from a church 200 years ago would've walked into one of todays IFB churches, he would've been furious that the men and women were even sitting together.

    I'm not suggesting that we need to return to this, but has the church been wrong for the past 1950 years? Do you think the original churches would've succeeded if people with todays thinking were running them? Did it just now dawn on us that we had it wrong the whole time? Is it wrong to take the Bible at face value concerning women and the church? Why did God write this if it wasn't important?
     
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    But if I believed the Church had taken the wrong course, I would want to return to the past. Why don't you, since you seem to feel the Church has taken the wrong path?

    If it was wrong that men and women sit together in the early Church, why is it not wrong today?

    I'm curious, do you believe it is wrong for a women to ask a question in a Bible study class?
     
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    Grasshopper, you would do best to stop stereotyping people. I go to a IFB church. Jack Hyles never comes up in our church yet you seem obessed with him. As for legalism that would be when we say something is a sin that the Bible doesn't call a sin. For example some churches say a woman wearing something other then a dresses is a sin. Well, they are wrong. What is ok to call a sin is woman not dressing modest. I have been to churches that this happens every Sunday. Women with to low of neck lines in the tops and pants so low they show of their thongs. Yet the leadership of the church never said a peep. Also let me list some other myths about IFB churches.

    1. They all are KJVO.
    2. They all think drums are evil.
    3. They all refuse to witness to sinners in a loving manner.
     
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    I was asking Tiny Tim for his thoughts on these things, but I see you still want to argue, ok. Yes, I do believe the church has taken the wrong course in general, that should be plainly obvious to a discerning Christian, and in some ways I would like to see the church return to the past. Do you think the state of society and morality is better today than 50 years ago? Do you think that modern western liberal thinking, secular society and music should be setting the ways and the paths for the church? Some churches are fighting that, as any church worth is salt should, and I commend them for it. Yes, some of them go to far at times, but the danger is great.

    I haven't read any scripture that said it was, and I hope it isn't, because I like sitting next to women! Where did I say it was wrong? I was just using it as an example. People like you think that women are treated so badly in the IFB churches today, and if you think it's so bad for them now, then it must have been brutal in the extreme in days gone by.

    Unlike you, I've never heard any IFB women that I've met complaining about anything, and they seemed happy. The women of the past were probably even stronger than they are. I think the IFB church has loosened up quite a bit when it comes to women, at least when judged according to the word of God.

    The early church didn't have "sunday school" as we know it, but to answer your question, no I don't. However, I do believe they shouldn't ask questions or nag at the service. We are there to worship God, save it for later.

    People back in Paul's day were probably extremely disruptive in the church, particularly the women, otherwise God wouldn't have inspired him to single them out in his ordinances for the church.
     
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