Joseph, go look at the context of 'be ye perfect...'
Secondly, you answered none of my questions but simply repeated what you always say. Please, I asked a series of questions. If you cannot answer them, say so.
Lastly, the Jesus I know and love and worship does not command the impossible. He actually loves all of us and will enable anyone who wants to follow Him to be able to.
God did not 'kidnap' us and force us to be married to His Son. We are, however, the bride. It is a love relationship. Love is a two-way street in this sort of relationship. We love because He first loved us, true. But, nevertheless, not all of those He loves have chosen to love Him back. And THAT is the crux of the matter.
Many are called; few are chosen. Why?
And if it is so totally beyond our ability to comprehend, why would God ever invite people to reason with Him? Why would He instruct us to seek Him?
Your concept of predestination is not only unbiblical, it denegrates God's character, denies the love and total atonement of Christ on the Cross, and makes mockery of much of the Bible.