Hi Jesus is Lord
Here is a post I posted on a
previous thread, which I think is very relevant to your question. That thread was talking about what the "it" of Romans 9:16 meant. After arguing that it meant "mercy", I wrote:
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Now, why doesn't that fit with Calvinism? Simple - because the passage isn't talking about individuals' salvation or damnation! I remember someone called Brother Bill who used to frequent this forum, who pointed out something very interesting that had sort of passed me by: the argument Paul was dealing with wasn't a Calvin/Aminius controversy, but one of "why has the gospel come to the gentiles, and the Jews been cast away?" This is the context of all of Romans 9-11. This passage (and the ones in the OT to which it alludes) tell us that God chose Isaac and not Ishmael to be the son through whom the promises were to be fulfilled. However, Abraham
willed that it would be Esau. This promise or election is given in a national sense - whose descendents would fulfil the promise? It has nothing to do with either individual's predestination to salvation or damnation. The same applies to God's choice of Jacob over Esau - Isaac
willed that Esau be chosen, but God chose Jacob. Esau even
ran to get the venison so he could be blessed, but God still gave the promise to Jacob. So we see that:
So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy.
God chose to declare his name through the Jews. That was his choice. He could have done it through the Arabs - but he didn't. It didn't matter how much other people wanted him to do it differently, he did it
his way. (To confirm that this is about God chosing groups to show forth his name, not individuals to salvation, see Gen 25:23 - "And the LORD said unto her, Two
nations are in thy womb, and two manner of
people shall be separated from thy bowels; and the one
people shall be stronger than the other
people; and the elder shall serve the younger." The same sense of these being people groups is found in the other allusions to OT passages in this chapter).
Now, Paul is telling us, God has chosen
another group:
believers, that include many gentiles (often called "the church", although I don't think the Bible actually refers to a "universal church"). And guess what?
He's rejected Israel (in a national sense). And it doesn't matter how much the Jews complain, or tell God he shouldn't do it that way, or "will" or "run",
God will "elect" or "have mercy on" believers, and will not deal with the Jewish nation (well, not at the moment). That is the message of not only the context of the few verses we've been quoting, but all of chapters 9-11. It has
nothing to do with God chosing certain individuals to be saved and others to be damned. Indeed, it no more states that God chooses individuals to become believers, than it states that God chooses individual Gentiles to become Jews.
God has elected, and chosen to have mercy on, one
group; and he has rejected another
group. But how one enters the former group is not given here. But it
is given in the next chapter:
"That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved."
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Does that help?