Lux et veritas
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But by that same token, I don't know of any Calvinist who does not pray like an Arminian either because they don't desire God to pass over their children or family. So they beg God to save them, to 'give them a second chance' and so on and so forth. The fact is we all pray like men who believe in God and that God is the only one to whom we can come to intervene as He sees fit, but is also a God who is moved by our cries/pleas.
If I may respectfully disagree with you on your example of prayer as being 'Arminian'. Actually, this prayer is perfectly compatible with Calvinism, because it is recognizing that God is the only one who can accomplish the work we are asking to be done.
Oh, and BTW, another Arminian writer that I admire is HAI. I have his entire set of commentaries in my library.