I do believe it sounds logical (humanly) that God forsook the Son by somehow withdrawing His love (even if not entirely). Perhaps this is because of our own finite nature as we are disposed to such changes and even retractions from what we may have said at one time in the distant past. BUT God is both immutable and eternal. His Word stands. My question, then, is why would we reject Scripture to make Christ's words on the cross mean anything than what is already affirmed in Scripture?
It was God's will that Christ suffer and die. The Son was obeying the Father. God was offering Christ as a guilt offering.
Is there a reason to reject that Christ's cry of anguish, that He was forsaken by God, points to this already testified event (of God, by His will, having the Messiah endure ridicule and suffering and die at the hands of men only to be vindicated by being raised to life) in favor of a theory not stated in Scripture (that God was wrathful towards the Son as He angrily punished Him) when that theory itself denies other passages concerning God and His Messiah?
Had He not voiced the prophetic cry of the 22nd Psalm then I would agree:
Psalm 22
<To the chief Musician upon Aijeleth Shahar, A Psalm of David.>
1 My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me? why art thou so far from helping me, and from the words of my roaring?
2 O my God, I cry in the daytime, but thou hearest not; and in the night season, and am not silent.
3 But thou art holy, O thou that inhabitest the praises of Israel.
4 Our fathers trusted in thee: they trusted, and thou didst deliver them.
5 They cried unto thee, and were delivered: they trusted in thee, and were not confounded.
6 But I am a worm, and no man; a reproach of men, and despised of the people.
7 All they that see me laugh me to scorn: they shoot out the lip, they shake the head, saying,
8 He trusted on the LORD that he would deliver him: let him deliver him, seeing he delighted in him.
true the psalmist does not call his suffering the wrath of God but Jesus however only cries out the first line in the Psalm so the dynamics are still unknown.
You have your human logic and I have mine to contemplate the great and glorious mystery of the atonement.
One thing we can both know and cherish is that whatever the details of human redemption involved it was accomplished;
Luke 23:46 And when Jesus had cried with a loud voice, he said, Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit: and having said thus, he gave up the ghost.
John 19:30 When Jesus therefore had received the vinegar, he said, It is finished: and he bowed his head, and gave up the ghost.
three days later the resurrection;
Revelation 1:18 I am he that liveth, and was dead; and, behold, I am alive for evermore, Amen; and have the keys of hell and of death.
And as the season of the Incarnation approaches : Glory to God in the Highest.
HankD